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By Anonymous - 02/08/2023 12:00

Today, my mom has gotten to the stage of her Alzheimer’s where every time I visit she thinks I’m a burglar, and screams and cries until I leave. My dad does his best, but I just want my mom back. FML
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My grandmother had dementia. She didn’t scream like your mother, but you could tell she wasn’t sure anymore who we were by the end, though she did seem to feel safe with us there. That was the absolute worst part for us I think, watching her like that. I can’t even imagine how much worse it is for you. Not only because it’s your mother but also that she is actively afraid of you and doesn’t remember you at all. Make sure you take care of yourself. I’m so sorry you need to deal with this.

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My grandmother had dementia. She didn’t scream like your mother, but you could tell she wasn’t sure anymore who we were by the end, though she did seem to feel safe with us there. That was the absolute worst part for us I think, watching her like that. I can’t even imagine how much worse it is for you. Not only because it’s your mother but also that she is actively afraid of you and doesn’t remember you at all. Make sure you take care of yourself. I’m so sorry you need to deal with this.