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By no way! - 29/08/2021 17:01

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Today, my funny, handsome, intelligent, caring, all around awesome boyfriend and I broke up. He introduced me to his fetish and wanted me to participate. His fetish? Dressing, talking, and acting like a baby. He wanted us to both wear diapers and pretend to be babies together. Fuck that noise. FML
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QueenSaru 28

Yeah that fetish actually doesn't usually ever have sexual connotations. So... did you break up just because he asked for it? Or because he wouldn't take no for an answer? Just asking doesn't seem like a break-uppable offense, because lets be honest, no one is 100% compatible and it's okay to not want to engage in something that the other person has an interest in. I hope you at least had a conversation with him and attempted a compromise (maybe days where you 'spoil' him by taking care of him, making him his favourite meals, cuddling time etc) rather than just kicking him to the curb for being comfortable enough to bring this up to you.

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RichardPencil 30

When something seems too good to be true... Of course, you throwing a temper tantrum over this probably turned him on intensely.

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RichardPencil 30

When something seems too good to be true... Of course, you throwing a temper tantrum over this probably turned him on intensely.

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fatherof4 4

Wow not my kink but rocks and glass houses

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Ellimac21 14

Yuck... Nope nope nope... THIS is one of the fetish I'll never understand. Like, how the heck do you find babies sexually attractive ? Seriously that's twisted.

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Charlie Given 26

actually that particular fetish has nothing to do with sex it's about someone receiving a lot of affection and attention and cuddling like a mother to a baby.

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Charlie Given 26

It may seem like a bizarre fetish but it's actually one of the most harmless ones out there. it's about someone receiving direct personal attention , affection ,cuddling and sympathy. Like how a parent would treat a baby. Your former BF probably suffers from a lack of motherly attention as a child and was hoping to get that missing female affection from you.

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ChipBoundary 9

Yeah, no. People that are into this type of thing have serious mental health problems, and should never be indulged. It does a lot of harm to them and the people they subject to it. Mental illness should be accepted, helped, and treated. Not embraced, encouraged, and engaged. This is not a case of mommy didn't love me enough, this is genuine mental illness.

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mayaklast 12

Your explanation makes sense, but while I know nothing about that particular fetish, the way the FML describes it sounds self-defeating to me: I get how playing a baby while your partner plays the parent could be a comfort / affection need thing, but she says her boyfriend wanted them to roleplay babies together while wearing diapers... if the two of them are roleplaying babies and there is no parental figure in the equation, I just don't get where the script is going. But maybe that's just me? ^^

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QueenSaru 28

Yeah that fetish actually doesn't usually ever have sexual connotations. So... did you break up just because he asked for it? Or because he wouldn't take no for an answer? Just asking doesn't seem like a break-uppable offense, because lets be honest, no one is 100% compatible and it's okay to not want to engage in something that the other person has an interest in. I hope you at least had a conversation with him and attempted a compromise (maybe days where you 'spoil' him by taking care of him, making him his favourite meals, cuddling time etc) rather than just kicking him to the curb for being comfortable enough to bring this up to you.

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raven_of_azarath 34

Sounds like you might have dated my ex. As others have said, it’s really a harmless thing that’s been developed due to trauma and “mommy issues” (for lack of a better term).

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Major Ahull 3

People call others "Baby" all the time.

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phybreawptic 13

So you left him.

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juggalo2 20

That's it? How much time did he ask you to give him? It could have been something awful, like he wanted you to attend sporting events or something.

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