"& guys are alot sleezyer then they lead on" I will admit that men are overall more sleazy then women, but don't make it out that every guy is a sleazeball. Even if you respond saying that that's not what you meant, it doesn't matter, because in your original post you implied it (intentional or not). Yes, you're married to a sleazeball, that sucks. Then again, why are you married and having a kid at 18? That's just poor planning. Irregardless, my main point is, women can be just as sleazy as men. I personally know (I work in the medical field) a few nurses, CNAs, and administrative coworkers that sleep around all of the time (yes, they are all women and yes, they are all in relationships of varying degrees). Luckily for you women out there and luckily for us men out there, not everyone is a sleazeball and are actually decent people.

Sorry, I must apologize, you mentioned you used birth control and it failed. Sorry for that. =( My g/f and I do the same thing you guys do, but luckily we haven't had any unexpected surprises. So it was wrong to bring up the "why baby at 18" part, but still married at 18? I hope you guys can make it work, I know too many couples that have failed at that age, but hoping you're an exception (unless you divorce him for not being totally open about himself, which means maybe there are other skeletons in his closet? Hope not for your sake).

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