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do not listen to any negative comments. you are not a pussy. ten years of control can be hell on your mental and emotional health. try finding a place where you can hide cash and put away a little every week. in the meantime, if you can find some free therapy groups, online groups if you can't find an excuse to get out of the house. build up your strength and $, and when you're ready, you can get out. good luck, hope this helps.

And that's the exact reason he does it...

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And that's the exact reason he does it...

Nice victim blaming champ

Well, has he been doing a good job of it? If he's making good decisions, then that's less you have to worry about.

This is the opposite of unpleasantness. Letting other people control things can be freeing if they are good at it.

do not listen to any negative comments. you are not a pussy. ten years of control can be hell on your mental and emotional health. try finding a place where you can hide cash and put away a little every week. in the meantime, if you can find some free therapy groups, online groups if you can't find an excuse to get out of the house. build up your strength and $, and when you're ready, you can get out. good luck, hope this helps.

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The first step is realizing it. now the next step, how are you going to give yourself strength?

Abuse is never okay, no matter the circumstance and living in a consistently abusive environment can really do a number on your mental health. You ARE worth so much more than this.

some countries have women houses where you can seek refuge from men :)

If you’re too scared and can’t find your confidence, just look for hatred. Hate him enough to leave.

If you’re too scared or can’t find your confidence or whatever it is, just find your hatred. Realise the pain and hate that man with all your being until you want to squish him like and insect. And then get the f*** out.