Finally!

Thats messed up, you really need to work on communication. Any man can give you an orgasm if he tries, and it doesnt need to involve his penis at all. YDI.

This sounds like universal advice, but I can tell you, this is not true for every woman, despite it being popular belief.

Very true, some women are apparently unable to experience an orgasm which is called orgasmic dysfunction . 11% to 41% of women are believed so suffer it on some level.

It might be a different reason. Some medications make is almost impossible to orgasm that when you do it's like a miracle

Sobbing is good way to know you're not faking it!

you know you can always do it yourself.

Are you stuuupid?! Open your damn mouth and tell him what you need! Instead of just expecting him to do it all for you. If you actually communicate then progress can happen.

Since the husband was clearly able to do it, no communication was needed. Maybe how the orgasm started is just rare.

You know guys, this could be a long distance relationship... I get it if that’s the case. After I haven’t seen my husband in over a month, being intimate with him leaves me sobbing too... just cos I miss him so much.

"Made her cum so hard she cried." - How your husband is describing it.