Divorced dad energy
By ihatemyex - 23/05/2020 14:00
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Look in your divorce decree, if it says he can select an agent or person of his choice to pick up the kids, then as much as it sucks, he can do that. Now that you know she's his girlfriend, you have to let her get them unless you go to court to have it changed. Honestly though, if he hadn't told you about her or introduced you, then I don't think a court would punish you for not letting the kids go with a stranger and will likely tell your ex he should have given you a heads up. I had my Visitation order changed to the only person besides my ex who can pick up my kids is his wife. I don't like or trust her, but I don't trust his judgement of who else he might send, so it was the lesser of two evils.
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She specifically said they have visitation order. That means regardless of whether or not they were married, they went to court over the kids. And it's bighly likely their visitation order says the ex can send "an agent" to pick up the kids for him. In which case she WAS in violation, but it's likely the court would be on the o.p.'s side.
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The fact that she was a complete stranger.... you would have been a fool to hand the kids over. Explain that to him or the court.
If he's never told you about her you are in the right. I'd send an email or message to him about all this so it is 'in stone' and he can't back out of saying he was never told...