By Anonymous - 06/12/2014 21:52 - Belgium
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That psychic has his own agenda... Probably. OP if she believes this bull crap and doesn't trust you, she's not worth your time.
I agree with 15. Op if you are actually truly considering leaving her because she's been cold and distant for the past few weeks than I think you were actually considering it way before or you aren't really in love with her. If the man I was in love with was cold and distant for a few weeks and I found out the reason (and yes it is a really stupid reason) I would be explaining why the psychic was wrong and talk about how he needs to trust me more and how we need to work on our issues and maybe go to counselling. I wouldn't just automatically consider leaving. I have a hard time believing that your marriage was great before this and that you weren't considering (or wanting) to get out. If you love her you should probably try and work things out first, maybe even do counselling, before you just decide to leave.
Wow that medium is such a douche. Can he not see that by making stuff up he can mess with people's lives?
Well, if this is all it takes to make you seriously consider leaving your wife, that psychic did have a point. Not necessarily because you were already considering leaving her, but because you seem to prefer letting a small bump ruin a marriage instead of taking care of the problem.
I agree with 10. This isn't just someone he's dating, this is the woman he fell in love with and is married to. Yes, she is an absolute idiot, no doubt about it. However, if he loves her and is committed to her than he should try and work things out first. If he was just dating her than that's one thing, but he's married to her. Now if they have tried to work things out and gone to counselling and she won't change, then that's a different story and it may be time to consider leaving. But to just decide to leave after a few weeks of her being "cold and distant" doesn't make much sense. Every marriage has a few bumps but you don't just abandon ship on the first one without trying to work it through, in my opinion. And to be honest I have a hard time believing that his marriage was perfect and he was completely happy before this, because if he was then he would be desperately trying to get that back. Again, not saying that the wife isn't an idiot and in the wrong, she definitely is, but I don't think Op is reacting in the right way either and have a hard time believing he was happy before and wasn't semi-considering leaving before all this.