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By Lonely Loser - 27/07/2021 02:01 - United States

Today, I started self-harming again. My therapist keeps switching the subject when I try to bring it up, and my best friend has called me attention-seeking and selfish so many times in the past year that I’m too scared to ask for her support. I have nobody else to talk to. FML

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So lonely

By majestic09 - 17/02/2023 10:00

Today, I’m mentally, emotionally, and physically exhausted, and I feel like the only person I can talk to who actually listens is my therapist. FML

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Ex-friend

By Anonymous - 02/05/2023 03:00

Today, my friend, knowing my mental health is really bad right now, decided to yell out the fact I have an eating disorder, and how she never sees me eat ever, then started to talk about self-harm and how she would never do it despite what she has gone through. All while side-eyeing me when talking to other people. FML

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Next!

By Anonymous - 23/04/2020 05:00

Today, my therapist broke up with me after almost 3 years. I can’t pay people to listen to my problems. FML

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Red flag

By Anonymous - 12/01/2021 20:01

Today, I tried therapy to talk about my problems without feeling like i am harassing anyone. After messaging a therapist for over 2 hours, I felt way better and finally understood. It turned out I'm in such a bad mental state that I'm a danger to myself and others. Police were called by the therapist. FML

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Special case

By Anonymous - 29/06/2022 13:00 - Canada - Vancouver

Today, and every time I meet a new therapist for support, I’m told that my issues are out of their scope of practice, and I get referred to someone who’s supposed to more experienced, and then get told the same thing. I’m too fucked up to even get the therapy I need to get better. FML

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Life's what you make it

By m…… - 25/02/2024 05:00 - United States

Today, my parents want nothing to do with me because I can’t stop spending money. Buying junk food is the one thing that makes me happy, and I’ve been to countless therapists and tried every medication. FML

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Enough already!

By SadWoman - 30/09/2022 13:30 - United States - Kula

Today, my counsellor said that my venting needs to stop with this session, and that I needed to have goals towards which she can help me go. But I'm so lonely and just wanted to talk to someone. So now, a person won't take money from me to listen to me. FML

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Sharing is caring

By Anonymous - 28/03/2023 03:00 - United States - Leawood

Today, I finally shared some of my insecurities and difficulties I’m experiencing with a close friend. The response was great, they listened, and gave advice. Later I met another friend, who said that they’re here for me. Everyone was just trying to help, but now almost everyone I know knows. I feel worse than before. FML

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By Screwed Up - 09/05/2013 05:30 - United States

Today, I went to therapy. I started talking about my childhood and my life. By the time the session was over my therapist was crying. FML

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ED much?

By Anonymous - 12/01/2011 01:04 - United States

Today, my step-mom asked if I was having some eating issues. I admitted that maybe I've picked up some bad habits from friends and school. Now she won't stop bombarding me with self-help books and therapy websites. FML

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RichardPencil 30

Tuesday 27 July 2021 11:42

He who pays the piper calls the tune. When you pay a therapist, you choose the subject. If you want to discuss Olympic curling, then they gotta ******' discuss Olympic curling!

TomeDr 24

Tuesday 27 July 2021 12:53

Time for a new therapist. They’re there to help YOU, not to listen to themselves talk.

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RichardPencil 30

Tuesday 27 July 2021 11:42

He who pays the piper calls the tune. When you pay a therapist, you choose the subject. If you want to discuss Olympic curling, then they gotta ******' discuss Olympic curling!

TomeDr 24

Tuesday 27 July 2021 12:53

Time for a new therapist. They’re there to help YOU, not to listen to themselves talk.

Lydmyers 9

Tuesday 27 July 2021 14:29

I have been there, and I hope you are okay.

Chazzster 28

Tuesday 27 July 2021 19:53

Not every therapist is competent or a good fit with each patient’s needs. You must change therapists because this one is not helping you.

Brandy Plapp 15

Tuesday 27 July 2021 20:50

I'm so sorry you're not getting any support when you need it most. I am clean 8 years from self harming and it can be done but only from excellent mental health providers to teach you coping skills. I too recommend changing therapist as many times as necessary until you feel supported and make sure you tell them you want to learn coping skills. You can talk till your blue in the face and it won't change anything. Feel free to message me if I can help.

randybryant799 20

Wednesday 28 July 2021 0:55

Find another therapist.

imawesome82 3

Wednesday 28 July 2021 5:03

You can talk to me. My name is Jennifer young-Owens on fb… look me up. You need a new therapist ASAP…

SteelyAnt 4

Wednesday 28 July 2021 12:27

Sounds like you need a new best friend and therapist

AnthonyM1914 4

Thursday 29 July 2021 10:43

You need to go to the hospital. I hate to say it, but you do. It's the only way to help break the habit and I only know that because that's how I stopped