Unrequited lover

By Anonymous - 13/11/2020 11:31

Today, I had to give advice to my best friend and love of my life. What kind of advice? What to wear while on a date with some guy. We're roommates, and she wouldn't stop telling me about everything when she got home. This happens on a regular basis. FML
I agree, your life sucks 423
You deserved it 878

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stop torturing yourself, either move on with someone else or take the chance and be tell her how you feel.

She's not the love of your life. She's not your best friend, because you haven't been honest with her or yourself. You have poisoned your friendship because you have not been honest about your feelings. You either need to move out and create some distance between you or tell her you can't be her BFF anymore because your feelings have changed and you now have romantic feelings for her. Also keep in mind that this is your fault. You're the one who changed, so you should try to fix it. Learn to be more honest about your feelings, and how to approach and socialize with available women.

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stop torturing yourself, either move on with someone else or take the chance and be tell her how you feel.

She's not the love of your life. She's not your best friend, because you haven't been honest with her or yourself. You have poisoned your friendship because you have not been honest about your feelings. You either need to move out and create some distance between you or tell her you can't be her BFF anymore because your feelings have changed and you now have romantic feelings for her. Also keep in mind that this is your fault. You're the one who changed, so you should try to fix it. Learn to be more honest about your feelings, and how to approach and socialize with available women.

To the person that wrote this. What right do you have to tell this person its there fault and such as you said. My very simple question to is this, are you that person, do you if this person had ever tried to tell her, have you ever considered the fact is that they where friends first he did not try to do anything coming into the frfreindship first and got to know her. where is there fault in that. you can not have it both ways . image if you will he went the other way then this post would turn into oh maybe if you got to know her first. To the gentleman of the post it took you awhile to understand how you felt about said this women, does not mean all is lost take a step back and just talk to her thats all you really have to do tell how you feel if she just want to be friends then ask her not to yell you about her dates for a bit you will hopefully turn around and be able to start a new knowing you at least let her know how you felt. my two cents

Are you a lesbian? If so move on because your BFF is not

They could both be bisexual. OP, either say something, or move out. Don't torture yourself like this.

She's not the love of your life. Time to move on, move out, and live your own life.

She's Just Not That Into You.

Speak up! Tell her how you feel. Otherwise, stop complaining about it.