Oh my

Sounds like he'll be seeing that fire. My condolences to you OP, I hope you feel better soon

That is awful OP. Your brother-in-law is an asshole. You have my condolences.

Oh, it is! They got a real good heating guy who hooked them up with some sick insulation and temperature regulation controls! None of that cheap, cold fire you get in, like, purgatory.

You're a better person than me, OP. I would have punched him, forget telling my sister first. I'm sorry about your mother.

This is what it means to be heartless. Even if you have those kinds of thoughts, you shouldn't voice them, especially not around those who are mourning. I'm so sorry for your loss.

should have decked him. what a jerk.

That's another reason always to have a voice recorder with you wherever you go. Also, really sorry about your mother i know how hard it can be..

I'm sorry about your mum, son-in-law and mother-in-law relationships can be very tricky but even if there were bad feelings between them he should have kept his thoughts to himself. I know you probably had the best intentions, but what did you expect to gain from telling your sister? Especially while she's trying to deal with her grief too, it just seems it would've been best to wait until everyone's emotions were running a bit less high to raise your concerns about her insensitive husband.

These are the most unfair and spiteful persons to know - they hold grudges forever. She's dead, let it go.