By Anonymous - 11/06/2016 05:15 - United States - Bronx
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Why wouldn't she just say shes going out for the night? Because you seem old enough to know whats goin on...
You should talk to her OP and call her out on it. But seriously though, she seems like a lying bitch and you should kick her to the curb. I'm so sorry, FYL.
You should definitely have a talk with her, Op. It is always better to ask than assume, even when all signs point to what you've assumed.
Definitely FYL. I wouldn't jump to her cheating though. It sounds like she wanted to look and feel sexy so guys would hit on her and give her attention at a club/party. She could be feeling like she's missing something in the relationship but isn't being an adult about it. Either way, there's something up and she needs to talk to you about it instead of sneaking around. You can't fix a problem if you aren't even aware it's there.
#20 I agree, women are allowed to wear whatever they want, and they can absolutely look good just for themselves. However, the issue the OP is complaining about here is not the fact that his wife dressed up, it's that she was pretty clearly lying. If you're just couponing, you don't usually sneak into your own house at almost 3am. Also, I don't know about anyone else, but when I'm casually hanging out with my friend, like she said she was, I dress in comfortable, casual clothing, not clubbing attire.
Agreed on the double standard - in fact it seems that society in general has a double standard in many areas. Often these double standards are promoted by extreme "feminists" who want to make it seem like women are perfect and men are evil and need to be killed (Before someone murders me, I actually am a feminist male, as I believe we need equality, but people who claim to be feminists and try to push female promoting <as in unequal in favor of women> agendas irritate me to great extent)
Yeah, except I was replying solely to the comments on the person I commented under. Did you not read their comment? I understand the concept of lying and how it's a bad thing :/ that wasn't what I was referring to and I hadn't even given my opinion on that so please only respond to what I actually said, thank you.
Maybe he doesn't make her life exciting enough? I know you usually side with the OP but we don't know why she went out like that.