Just stand up for yourself. It's not about being the "guy" or the "girl" in a relationship, it's about not being such a pushover.

Wear some trousers in the relationship you goddamn woman.

eh, i thought i had everything worked out with my girlfriend and we would choose where to go/what to do 50:50 but for some reason after a while i stopped doing my part. she reminded me that i need to make plans more or else she'll feel like she's doing all the work and you don't like her enough to take charge. so, you deserve it. i deserve it. improve yourself.

A little something about women: If you are a pushover, she'll find a bad boy to mess around with, so she can feel like a woman. If you act like a bad boy and boss her, she'll find a new "boyfriend material" guy. You need to slowely put the pants on, or cut your losses if you are unhappy wearing the skirt.

i know how she feels. my ex-boyfriend NEVER drove us around. he was older than me, and didn't even have his permit.

who needs to wear the "pants" get naked and be equal

Tell your man to step up then and grow some balls if he wants to wear the big boy trousers. If he waits around waiting for someone to ask him where he wants to go then he is going to be waiting around a long time. In this world if you don't ask or speak up then you don't get anything!

ahahaha, WHIPPED... she sounds like a feisty woman *rawr*

I dunno, sounds kinda cool actually. Most of my relationships end because I get tired of always being the one to figure out what and how to do.

#3 lmao