Issuing ultimatums is a risky business and usually doesn’t work out.

Well that's a 'no'

Sounds like you dodged a bullet OP. Thankfully, there is going to be someone out there for you.

If you're already living together, isn't that some kind of commitment? Or were you just in love with your roommate, and he didn't know it?

You had a nice fuck buddy, but you got greedy.

If you've been together for a long time, then I think it's fine for you to raise the issue of spending your lives together :) Unfortunately, my cousin dated this girl for like 8 years ? 9 years? since he was in military, he's like 28 ish now and the gf is a year older...and I think they recently broke up :( He had no plans to be with her forever but she didn't know that :((

Hahahaha I’m sorry the abruptness of the second sentence when reading it make me laugh my ass off