So why the hell are you assuming that it is the schools responsibility to explain the "Facts of Life" to him in such a manner that he is able to parse out that if he is a virgin he cannot be the father. My 9 year old knows that much from watching National Geographic wildlife tv shows. I'm thinking that the school did provide some sex education and he's just not smart enough to figure it out. The acorn doesn't fall far from the tree.

Although it sucks he is 19 you should have given him the sex talk earlier...

"...that the school never did..." Ummm honey, that's YOUR job. Schools do a shitty way of teaching it anyway. The only thing I saw was an 18th century diagram of a ****** and a very limp penis and then saw a video of an old man feeling up a teen with his shirt off in a basement and how its wrong and if it happens, tell someone. At least you did sit down and finally talk but FYL and moreover FHL for having a cheating ***** gf.

It's YOUR job to teach your child about sex, not his school's. YOU'RE the one who effed up, OP.

You should have the sex talk with him not the school

wow, you expected the school to teach your son about something you should talk to him about? i don't do this this much but you deserve it

I feel like the OP probably misunderstood the situation. I'm thinking that the son isn't really a virgin but was trying to get out of admitting he possibly has and/or transmitted the STD. He just isn't very bright and came up with the only excuse he could think of which happens to be "I'm a virgin".

Hes 19 years old?! You ruined him! Cut the umbilical cord already!.. Shit im goin to hell, oh well bring on the heat bitches!!!

Why would you rely on the school for the sex talk. You should've done it yourself.

Okay, this kid is my generation - why the hell didn't the internet teach him??!