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By  Judus_beej  |  7

kids do the darndest things. is protection a dirty word or something now a days? just be lucky you did not get AIDS. might want to get tested for that also though.

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By  kellanlvr  |  13

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  FFML_314  |  13

Now there's something to be proud of. YAY OP, NOW YOU CAN BE FAMOUS! No, this is horrible. Children shouldn't have children. Learn some self-respect, OP.

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  WHAT_THA_PHUCK  |  13

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  ShadyFTW1  |  13

People always comment "Oh, well maybe the protection didn't work!". Do you have any idea how unlikely that is? Condoms have over a 95% prevention rate on their own, and when used with birth control pills, it's over 99.9%. OP almost certainly was not using protection, or was using it wrong.

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  MonkeyMan03  |  13

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99 Your comment makes no sense. Just because the protection might not have worked, doesn't change the fact that she was being sexually active at 15. Plus the way everyone is using "whore" is wrong. A whore is a prostitute or someone who has multiple partners. You have no proof that OP was doing that

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  babyale760  |  13

op, if you think you were responsible to have sex at a young age and knew the consequences then you should now take care of your responsibility. have an awesome life. :)

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  brootalxkeni  |  13

oh stfu. in nature the younger women are meant to have kids. that's why they are so fertile and they produce milk. a 40 year old lady having a kid is disgusting and wrong.

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  syddyb  |  13

I kind of agree with 245, because a lot of cultures have kids at a young age. its just in our upbringing that people learn to think that it's wrong. But of course, you're supposed to wait until you're married, so I think we should just blame the government. I'm sure a lot of younger people would get married if their wasn't a law to prevent it. (: okay, I typed my opinion, I'm out.

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  tropicallei88  |  13

if she was pregnant and was using birth control pill and she was on antibiotics, it can cancel out the birth control and since she's 16 she problem didn't pay too much attention to her gyno when she was told this. BUt the OP is still irresponsilbe and should have used other methods or just NOT HAVE SEX AT 16 .. just saying.

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  treesdevin  |  13

16 & pregnant.? reallyy.? yayy she can be on a show with a bunch of dumb bitches complain about everything .... damn i hate mtv now... so much for music television....

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  foREVerA7X  |  13

People In these third world countries have kids at a young age because there life expectancy is short. It's like saying "well women In England during the 15th century got pregnant around the age of 14. So women(little kids) should do the same today". When obviously they had to have kids young since they only lived into their late thirties, early fifties at the best.

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  buzzyBEE  |  13

I think people are getting the wrong picture. it is ILLEGAL to have sex under 16! she had sex just before her 16th birthday. it is her fault for being so immature. And to those saying "in the 15th century people have children at 14", well, this is the 21st century! Do something about your problem instead of FML'ing about it.

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  marcranger  |  13

327, it is not illegal to have sex under the age of 18, or a lot more teen parents would be in jail. the only case for statutory rape here would be if the father is over 18, since she had sex with him when she was 15. in some states the age of consent is 16 or 17. anyway, fyl op. good luck whatever you do. if you decide to go that way, planned parenthood offers a sliding payment scale.

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  shacoria  |  13

Forget about the OP, this sucks for her unborn child. Please put the child up for adoption so that it can have a loving family that is able to provide for it. Being raised by a single mother is not what's best for a child and often times with teen pregnancy the father will not be in the child's life. Choose adoption for the child.

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  taechanisapony  |  13

All of you calling the OP a whore or a slut or some other word with a similar meaning, you don't know the surrounding circumstances. I'm not defending anything she did, but it doesn't make someone a whore or a slut if she had only one sexual partner, and especially not if she was raped. Obviously, she could've been more careful, because most contraceptives work when A) used properly and B) used with other methods, so she likely screwed up on one or both of those points. But a person is only a whore or a slut if they sleep around. If she did that, then by all means she is a slut, but we don't know that. :)

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  babyydolly  |  13

you guys are all fucking morons. everyone has their own damn opinion. I was 17 when I had my son I'm still with the daddy I'm in a University and I work on top of that we love our child to death. it depends on the person some get the big picture and settle down others are MORONS so everyone just shut up!! and let her make her own decision.

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  n_epic_fail  |  13

what? just because she's pregnant doesn't make her a whore. she's the one that got unlucky. stupid yea, irresponsible? obviously. but u don't know her enough to call get a whore.

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  fina444  |  13

Excuse me but i once read a book and it was about a 10 year old girl who got married its called i am nujood age 10 and divorced she fought for the rights of the girls in her country who were married by there fathers and allowed them to be able to get a divorce so compared to that this is fine

By  infinity20000  |  10

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  styphon  |  10

no. he is talking about ru486, two pills you take days apart. it is also called "medical abortion". most clinics will use it up to 9 wks of pregnancy

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  FFML_314  |  7

You failed to look up the definition of promiscuous. I know this may come as a shock to you, but a woman can get pregnant by having sex with only one person AND this is going to be good, a woman can also get pregnant after only having sex once. Imagine that. Don't be an ignorant fool.

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  chadkind  |  7

wow some of you are fucking idiots being 16 and having sex does not make you a slut wether your a girl or boy I bet most of you don't even know most teens start having sex at 14 years old yes being 16 and having a baby is kind of bad but for the past 10 years most teens have a kid by the age of 17 years old before you all want to open your mouths get with the times and if you have a teen your selfs I bet they are having sex go bitch at them and leave this pore girl alone...OP I'm sorry for all the idiots on here putting u down keep your head up

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  FFML_314  |  7

Facepalm. 1. Being slutty and being a slut are 2 different things 2. There is a large majority of people that would say having sex before marriage is slutty. Calling someone a slut, is based on fact. Considering someone slutty, is a matter of opinion.

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  Draminicaus  |  7

I dunno. I was under the impression that you had to have sex with a lot of different people within a small amount of time to be considered a slut, and anything under the age of consent was considered a prosti-tot.

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  Draminicaus  |  7

I dunno. I was under the impression that you had to have sex with a lot of different people within a small amount of time to be considered a slut, and anything under the age of consent was considered a prosti-tot.

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Oh my gosh! Seriously? People are so ignorant! Miss me with that shit PLEASE! There's actual problems in this world and you guys are getting so hostile over the things you can't change. At the end of the day, there are still GROWN ASS people reproducing, when they shouldn't be and There are pedophiles, child abusers, and crack addicts well out of their teens having babies. Please think before you speak..you sound like fools.

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  DocBastard  |  7

Phuck- teenagers having babies IS one of the big problems in the world, and yes we (adults) CAN do something about it. I have a daughter who is 4 (see my profile pic) and I will guaranfuckingtee you that she will not have sex until college. Any boy she even thinks about dating will have an understanding with me that I have a scalpel and a firm knowledge of the male anatomy. There is good clinical evidence that children of adolescent mothers are significantly worse in verbal reasoning and short-term memory than those of adult mothers. It is a real problem.

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  xoKylie  |  7

chadkind- Most teens actually don't start having sex at 14 and most teens don't have a baby by the time they're 17... There are some teens like that but not the majority of them.

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  DjeePee  |  7

'I have a daughter who is 4 (see my profile pic) and I will guaranfuckingtee you that she will not have sex until college. Any boy she even thinks about dating will have an understanding with me that I have a scalpel and a firm knowledge of the male anatomy.' Doc...you're joking, right? I really hope you are. My parents, and especially my father, shared your opinion, which has resulted in a fucked-up relationship during my teenage years. Please Doc, don't do that your child. It can ruin everything. And you are not right, you are not fair, it is her life, it is her responsibility to learn making choices and deal with the conscequences. The only thing that's fair is a serious talk about sex and relationships. But just acting like the agressive, overly-protected and concerned father won't solve a thing. Besides, if you don't accept her choices, she won't ever talk about them with you, and will do the things she wants behing your back. If she has a good brain and a lovely heart, she will listen to your opinion, like you should listen to hers. But please, don't be cruel.

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  varkey  |  7

@36: By the way, misunderstanding somebody's post doesn't necessarily make one illiterate. However, one's misunderstanding of the meaning of a single word may prove stronger evidence on the basis of which one's illiteracy may be argued for.

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  DocBastard  |  7

DJP - Yes, I'm speaking in hyperbole. Despite how I may act sometimes here, I'm not overly aggressive nor a mean guy at all in real life. We are raising my daughter to be smart and make smart choices, and while I agree that children sometimes need to learn from mistakes, part of my job is to make sure she doesn't make certain mistakes.

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  PFC_88  |  7

YDI for doing it at 16. YDFI for not using protection. if ya r going to do it at least be smart about it. "with a big cock/lose legs comes great responsibility" ps i cant spell gramer nazis to the floor!

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  dreamering  |  7

Many of you are missing the important point. I would say fuck the baby’s life. Some people here are or were in the same situation like the OP and surprisingly they are defending it. It’s not important if she is a slut or not. If for example 3 million teenagers do what the OP did, what is going to happen? I’m talking about principles. If you accept it, than the whole society deals with the consequences. Go check the facts how many gang members, criminals, murderers etc have the same background. Of course you can share some success stories, but the facts leading more to a sad reality. At 16 you don’t know the life yourself, forget about rising and educating a child. At 16 you can’t even vote or buy alcohol and there is a reason behind it. Again, there might be some exception, but in general the reality suck.

By  adidas125  |  6

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  DjeePee  |  6

Ofcourse it doesn't mean she's a slut. It's so cheap and rude to call people sluts because they don't live their (sexual) life like some people would prefer. But it does mean she's stupid. I strongly believe that anticonception can fail, but that chance is small. The pill is for 98% safe, if accidents happen, they mostly are the result of bad using. Medicins/diarrhea/throwing up/don't take the pill properly can result in less safety, which can result in pregnancy. There's a tiny paper included in every box of pills (and other medicines), which you really should read. The pill (if she used it) can fail, but because OP is still a young teenager, my guess is that she didn't take the pill like she should, and that it therefore is her fault. Just a guess. And condoms alone aren't safe, we all know that. (Oh and 15, that really doesn't matter)

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uh yeah 15 STFU! Why does that matter!? It's rare for people to stay together for very long! By the way congrats to those of you who are in long lasting loving relationships! It's amazing!!

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  tamimac  |  6

I had my daughter when I was 17... the babies don't always think the world of you... don't always love you... and def don't always appreciate everything you do for them... don't get me wrong, I love my kids so very much... just wish I were older when I had them. my daughter is 18 now & graduating this year. no drugs, no babies, good head on her shoulders & continuing her education <3

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  rob1976  |  6

it's called BIRTH CONTROL. Stop being a moron and use it. There's 11 forms of birth control a woman can use. this isn't an FML because she F'ed her OWN L.

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that's the problem, your child shouldn't be your best friend. you are his MOTHER not his FRIEND. You are there to guide him and make sure he's safe. And to try an make sure he doesn't make the same mistake you did. Having a baby is not a game, they are not toys. You should be a mature and responsible adult before you have kids.

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  CheyenneEMPK  |  6

There are grown adults out there that I know who shouldn't be having kids. I have friends who are teen mothers who are better then some of todays adult mothers, I'm 17 and had my daughter almost 4 months ago. Shit happens, it is OP own fault, but she human, she makes mistakes like EVERYONE else.

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  wt14  |  6

That's exactly the point n you hit it spot on. My mother said she was not just my mother, but also my friend. Look how I turned out. I smoke, did drugs, and she still doesn't know I'm bisexual because he believes it a sin. She also had me at a young age & is a terrible role model(: I cannot be blamed mostly.

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  babigirlca  |  6

Sure sure u turned out fine but really u shoodnt b having sex in the first place it's a sin. And saying it's ok is just encouraging kids to do it and fuck up their lives. Do u reely want a 12 yr old going through this? Or if she kills the baby do u reely want a life to die because someone did something they shoodnt have in the first place? If ur not married don't have sex. If u do ur just asking for a baby. Oh and if u think u love eachother sure u might and sure u might even get married but y not just wait til then. Get some patience And keep ur parts in ur pants.

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  bethan1  |  22

Why should the girl kill her baby because she made the mistake of having unprotected sex? It's not fair to punish the baby for the OP's lack of common sense. If she isn't ready to be a mother she should give the baby up for adoption so they can have a chance with a family who wants them.

By  loudema  |  14

so why is that an fml? you dud it to yourself for not being safe. on the bright side, the stork will have a present for you just before your next birthday!

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