By Lady_Gunslinger9 - United Kingdom - Durham
Today, I told my boyfriend I was scared to open up to him because I had lost people in the past by doing so. After an hour of him trying to convince me to share my thoughts with him, I finally agreed to tell him some things that were worrying me. He broke up with me a minute later. FML
Lady_Gunslinger9 tells us more :
Hey guys I'm the OP, just thought I'd make an account and give you all some extra information. I have an anxiety disorder and depression, he knew about both of these and he could tell I wasn't feeling okay so he asked me what was wrong, I tried to convince him it was nothing because I don't feel comfortable opening up to people because of things that have happened in my past. When he eventually convinced me I wasn't going to lose him if I opened up, I took a risk. I told him some things that were worrying me and no it's nothing crazy or weird (although the murder comments did cheer me up a little). The conversation led to talking about our relationship and that's when he ended it. I'm better off without him because anyone who cant deal with me telling them small things that everyone goes through certainly couldn't handle something big if it ever happened. I am sad it ended but I know its probably for the best
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  okokalright  |  15

..Or she could just have a form of anxiety or she's afraid of getting hurt if she tells someone how she feels, has some problems she wants to work out, or is worried someone would leave her. Just because she might've shared something personal to him doesn't make her possibly awful minded. And usually someone you're in a relationship with is someone you trust

  KingLewisII  |  34

34 that's something you should tell someone you plan to be in a relationship anyway, before you get intimate they have a right to know and keeping it a secret is a reason to breakup. I'm guessing op told stories about having dreams of killing babies every night or something

  enginsteve  |  17

#89. Unless OP is telling them how much she likes to eat the organs of babies while their heart is still beating, or something about how she likes to crush nuts, my money is going with that the guys she ends up with are pussies.

Even if she was worried, depressed, or has anxiety problems you don't run from that you fucking work it out...

Oh one more thing blowjobs. If she's telling him that she doesn't like to give blowjobs and she'll never do it again, then that's a pretty good reason for them to leave.. Lol I've left for that!

By  1dvs_bstd  |  41

What a fucking lemon. OP, word to the wise: next time don't open up all your pandora of secrets all at once. Do it bit by bit over the course of the relationship, that way you don't come across as crazy. But fuck him tho.

  strike2867  |  13

Wallow in self pity combined with poor food choices, sounds like a healthy way to cope. Wouldn't want to get out of the house, get some exercise and meet new people, that would be terrible.

By  hiheyitschloe  |  13

Assshoolee alert! You deserve better, OP. I know right now it may seem that you'll never find someone who'll always be there, but one day you will and they'll love everything about you no matter what. I'll be rooting for you when that day comes! Keep your chin up beautiful! x