I'm sorry to hear that. That really fucking sucks.

OP get away from your mother for a while. She's toxic. And her insensitivity and outrageous accusations are the last things you need. This may really damage your relationship with her. Sorry for your loss OP. They say God wants the good ones to come back to him young.

and apparently the OP's mom didn't have. a male best friend who wasn't her husband.

The situation does indeed suck; I think we just found a good candidate to be Auntie Bernie's first patient.

Man you guys are really over the top here. All of these fmls are biased towards one side of the story.

@64 What could the mother possibly say to defend herself?

Sorry to hear this, OP

didn't mean to thumb this down clicked the wrong one. sorry.

Maybe you should talk to your mom about appropriate behavior after the death of someone close...

I think the only thing that is fucked here is your mother's mind. In all seriousness I am very sorry for your lost. I can not imagine the grief you must be going through. It's just a bad day, not a bad life.

I am so sorry for your loss. I really hope your mother was making a realllly shit joke.

Her mother is shit. Plain and simple.

I'm so sorry for your loss OP, my prayers go out to you

Sorry about your loss. That's really horrible what your mother said.

I'm sorry for your loss. That's the worst thing ever to lose a Bestfriend. Your mom needs to get her priorities straight and try making you feel etter

This is one of the saddest fml's I've ever read I'm sorry for your loss op and hope you're feeling better.

1 or 9 years , someone's grieving process is at their own level . sorry for your loss OP.