Try to interpret silent cues (because words are too difficult apparently) and bring him his favorite food because he misses his truck? Is that seriously what you just said?

supple him with ample stamina to perform the telepathic commands more suited to a dog, yeah you seem great.

Putting your needs and feelings aside to be the "cool, chill girl" is not the way to be.

You are an amazing person.

I bet he does. But if after months he misses his truck more than his girlfriend.. He doesn't care and it's time to move on. I would know, my bf after 6 weeks jumped me seconds after walking into our apartment. His friend wanted to meet his friends first, then get drunk with them for 2 days, then be too tired to meet his gf, then went on a spontaneous trip to other city. He finally visited her after another week. He was also cheating on her with 2 other girls

In a matter of speaking, probably.

for all you know, he's one of those freaks who does that with his truck.

I see what you did there.

wow are you a relationship counsellor? That was really well out! You have a very diplomatic way of putting things that shows a lot of insight. I'm impressed!

Maybe he should tell her then that he needs alone time and not lie to her? I'm pretty sure she would have understood it, although of course it still hurts that he's not eager to see her after such a long time.

If that's the case, he should have said so instead of lying about his back. Had boyfriend said, hey, look, I need a little time to decompress before I see you; how about such-and-such a day, OP might not have been so hurt about him working on his truck. I mean, OP obviously missed her boyfriend and wanted to see him.