I'm wondering how many times she "came" around already? Especially after having sex for several hours. If she didn't climate herself, would she admit it was because she doesn't enjoy having sex with the OP also? Goes both ways.

Not really. Hate to bring up the "society" cliche, but most girls grow up believing that if they can't get their partner to climax, it's all their fault. I had a great sex education, and even when I know it's just because he's tired it's hard not to feel guilty and insecure.

#33 is right. My fiancee always feels guilty when she climaxes and I don't, even though I'm holding back for her.

Not orgasming could be a good thing. I know that in my own case, the hornier/more turned on I am, the longer it takes to climax. If I just want to bust one, its wham, bam, ty ma'am.

I remember my first time as being quite the same. I felt ashamed at the time, but later found out it was actually just the nerves. Haven't had any trouble since then, luckily. Don't worry OP. Every time you go at it again it's easier. Personally I think most men should hold out until the woman is completely satisfied and only then orgasm themselves. What also could help, is a little break. It could be that he became a bit insensitive after a while. Just wait about ten to fifteen minutes and it could be that you will come soon enough. Good luck!

Discuss it, shit happens! When I lost my virginity I had sex for over 3 hours and couldn't orgasm because I was nervous. Just show her you are willing to try again

Three hours?! I give up after 40 minutes! After that its just work.

She finished at least 7 times in those three hours. So at least I had that going for me.

And I agree now. I like when we can finish quickly, whether or not we choose to is then up to us. My last partner took forever, and half the time she couldn't finish, due to past issues. I'd spend more than 40 minutes going down on her, just for her to give up. Hard on her and my ego.

#63 I can relate, man.

Sounds like he got rubbed the wrong way.

Punpunpun

Or worse a condition called inorgasmia.

*anorgasmia

Not by a long shot. Inability to orgasm is MUCH worse than simply finishing too fast. The first makes sex frustrating as hell. The second still allows some sex.

"Hard on".. ;)

Big talker, huh? Such talk usually only serves to mask huge shortcomings

Says the guy with the name "dick diamond"

^ WIN

I LOLed so hard at #17

dick_diamond got owned by adamfuzzyballs. Genitality!

You dick.