By smh - 03/11/2015 20:04 - United States - Beulah
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So, you're complaining about him, yet you're the one who flashed a stranger. Genius.
It has happened to me accidentally. When I was younger, my parents were sick and under a lot of financial strain so I would just get hand-me-down clothes from my sister, and that included bras. Problem is they were too big for me. And even after things were ok, I was just so used to those bras I didn't know that that wasn't how they were supposed to fit. So combine a badly fitting bra, bending down to pick something up in front of someone, and a slightly loose shirt (wasn't showing any cleavage while upright, nor was it super low cut...it was just loose enough that when you bend down the top "opens" up) and you wind up in my situation. So embarrassing...I'd never even noticed that would happen until a dude quietly took me aside and let me know. In any case, I'm sure accidents like that don't happen often to many girls, but combine the right situations (bad bra, pulling up a sweater, bending over and not realizing how others are positioned, etc...) and I'm sure it does in fact happen now and then.
#51 thanks so much for your defense, it means a lot to me (especially since my long-winded opinions are something I am self-conscious about) :D Don't worry though, helptheorphans actually messaged me later to apologize and let me know he regretted writing that. He seems very chill, and I understand that we sometimes treat people differently online than irl. But seriously though, thanks, you seem sweet ^^
Not exactly ideal... But if you have been going strong for the past 2 years then it's not something to worry about. Many relationships don't start perfectly.
My now husband asked me out because I gave him an extra apple juice cup one morning in the drive thru, we've been together 14 years now. It's a silly reason, but if it's meant to be, the silly reason becomes the best reason I'm the world. Maybe he thought your flash, even accidental, meant you were spontaneous, and a free spirit. Maybe he was drawn to you because of this, and the flash was a bonus. If the relationship works, don't question it. That can cause problems where there aren't any.