so how many years? 2?

that sux but u should of made the move earlier and ur friend is a fake bitch

YDI for waiting two years. But your "friend" deserves something for being a bitch. Get your former (I hope) crush to a strip club or whorehouse and take pics. Or total your "friends" car

Well, that's probably because you could have potentially fumed over it for the duration of their relationship, made their lives miserable, etc. They might have just been trying to protect your feelings, even if she might be an asshole. Now just make some new friends or something, won't you? Come to think of it, you may have been the catalyst for their relationship. If it happened to pass that she'd talked to him about you or found out otherwise that he was uninterested in you, would you really have wanted to know? It'd be even worse if the reason for their relationship was that he happened to take a fancy to her and not the other way around. It's a bit crude, but there's only so many options in that case. Would you seriously deprive her of her right to see her on the basis that he was your secret crush? Or what if he happened to be her crush at the time and you were too oblivious in your own little world to realize it? Do you really think that your friend should suffer for your benefit? Even you must realize how hypocritical you must possibly look by now. This FML explains so very little and leaves too many questions unanswered. For all anyone here knows, the OP may be just as much of a creep as her friend potentially was, or perhaps even more so. @OP: If you're going to bother posting an FML, you should give enough backstory to make yourself not look suspicious in the process. Your supposed FML warrants nothing but skepticism. Come back when you find the ability to explain yourself.

God, that's nuts. What a psycho bitch of a friend- drop her, I say.

This is screwed up on so many levels! Your friend was probably encouraging you so you'd make a move on the guy and she could find out how he felt about her (through his acceptance/rejection of your advances). Some girls are crazy manipulative like that; it's twisted. If you were truly interested in the guy, as anything more than a nice idea in your head, you would've made a move by now. However, it sounds like he's a train wreck too (dating in secret for 2 years? wtf?) so maybe you lucked out. Dump both of them and get over it.

Kill them both and then call temporary insanity in court :)

what a bitch!!!!!

I don't really think your friend's bitch. I guess she was afraid to tell you or didn't know how to tell you, so she wouldn't hurt you. But yeah it sucks...

She obviously has low self-esteem and needed your attention to keep her happy. You may have saved a life.

Here's my only concern, how could you crush on someone for two whole years?! I would be insane by then!

Stay friends with her!! Guys are most likely to cheat w/ their wifes friends. You're getting CLOSER to HIM!!!