Sad news

By Anonymous - 04/05/2021 11:01

Today, after years of crushing over my best friend, I finally got the guts to tell her about my feelings, only to find out she has been secretly dating my roommate. I could not have been more depressed. My whole life feels shattered. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 035
You deserved it 300

Same thing different taste

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A “crush” means absolutely nothing to the person who knows nothing of your crush on them. So your friend did not “betray” you because there was no romantic involvement to betray. Take this as a learning experience - If you have a crush on someone then speak up and tell them of your feelings. In most cases you might be turned down but you might have a chance they might reciprocate as opposed to wasting endless time on a “crush”. Learn to ask the person you are interested in out on a “date” instead of just acting like “pals” and wasting time on crushes.

wrenavery90 12

Why is it a secret? I thought she was your best friend.

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slkeithh 14

A “crush” means absolutely nothing to the person who knows nothing of your crush on them. So your friend did not “betray” you because there was no romantic involvement to betray. Take this as a learning experience - If you have a crush on someone then speak up and tell them of your feelings. In most cases you might be turned down but you might have a chance they might reciprocate as opposed to wasting endless time on a “crush”. Learn to ask the person you are interested in out on a “date” instead of just acting like “pals” and wasting time on crushes.

bleachedraven 14

At least you can be realistic now.

DogeToTheMoon 4
wrenavery90 12

Why is it a secret? I thought she was your best friend.