Today, I finally hooked up with my longtime crush. I told all my friends about it, because of course I was really excited. Until later that night, when he texted me, telling me not to tell anyone what had happened, and that it was a one time deal. Oh, and right after that, he asked me for nudes. FML
roxieee234 tells us more.
I'm OP and just to clarify we were on a date so I wasn't expecting it to just be a hookup and the entire evening he had been talking about a potential relationship. I was quite vulnerable at this point and very into him so, obviously, I would've done anything he asked. of course in the end he didn't really want a relationship. and the reason I decided to tell my friends was because, as I said, he had been talking about a future for us and I believed him and I was excited thinking there would be more than just one night between us. turned out I was wrong. but also, no, I'm not a fuckgirl, just gullible.
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Last call, bad decisions and 3 a.m. texts you'll regret until noon. Cheers.
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WitEluded 13
Say sorry, one time deal. Enjoy the memories.
MrConcise 35
Priorities are in check, covering his tracks and then asking for evidence right after.
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Comments (161)
thejonac 21
you dodged a bullet, OP. now you know what he's like, and you can move on and find someone who'll treat you right
Cozy_Blanket 16
I mean she didn't exactly dodge the bullet. They had sex so he got what he wanted out of it.
JustinJK 21
I mean she wanted to have sex with him too. two way street. so she got what she wanted out of it as well.
kutchbabe 13
True fuckboy. I'm sorry about what happened, he's clearly a douche and you clearly deserve much better .
MRP360 14
*fukboi
tinycroc 10
Well, by that reasoning, she's a fuckgirl since I'm assuming you meant cause he just wanted a one night thing and acted on it. Whether or not she wanted just one night is irrelevant - you hook up like that, you can't be shocked.
SystemofaBlink41 27
I agree with this. The only douchebag thing the dude did was ask for nudes after he said not to tell anyone.
JustinJK 21
She's definitely a fuckgidl. You shouldn't expect a relationship if you just jump into bed with someone. If she wanted something more, then she should talk to him about it before hand. Kind of a ydi since she just acted on it.
Fmlsea 28
he actually is a fuckboy ,considering he lied to op saying he wanted to be realtionship with her .only to then change his mind after they had sex . he could of just done the right thing, and told her the truth from the start.
Anchovy11 7
What made you assume he wanted to be in a relationship with her? nothing in OPs post implys that.
Jirekianu2 19
best part is that **** boy doesn't mean any of that. it's a prison rape term that means a guy is literally only useful to be used sexually. OP blabbed about her sex life to everyone and didn't talk to him first. and clearly didn't communicate well. guy's a dick for the nude request. but can't blame him for wanting to not spread around he had sex with someone. especially if they're not in a relationship.
iPixelCheese 19
Screenshot him asking and post it. Seriously FYL
nitrog100 21
You 88.21% deserve it. Let's recap; you have a long-term crush on a guy, and don't make a move; I don't know who initiated, but the first non-platonic thing you do is do the horizontal monster mash; you then proceed to spread the news of your amorous activities to all of your friends. His asking for nudes was a bad idea, but you still need to learn to make better decisions.
tinycroc 10
Long time crush and you decide the best way to get him is to not go on a first date, but hook up? Classy. If you act like a one night stand, expect to be treated like one. YDI
bad_boyfriend 10
I will ever understand why in the era of Tinder and hookups people assume sex means anything. Sex means someone wanted to cum, thats it.
ohSNAPyall 27
1960s: I will never understand why in the era of birth control and free love people assume sex means anything. 1920s: I will never understand why in the era of speakeasies and jitterbugging people assume sex means anything. And on...
Colon_Man 17
I will never understand why in this, the year of the Lord 1138, what with raping and pillaging, that people think that sex means anything.
ohSNAPyall 27
He was a cheap, easy lay too, and she didn't treat him like that.
boxergirl1054 16
Yeah it's hard when its not mutual:( sorry that happened to you:(
MossyMegaMan 20
Cum on now, that's ridiculous.
kabooooo 4
Fuckboy
mswhatever 18
She was just a fuckgirl she let it happen.
ColdRoxas 18
#44 your one of smart people in this comment section it's not just the guys fault I mean if u wanna go get closer to like a relationship status you don't start with "hook ups" it's her fault to