By SingleAgain - 03/08/2012 06:22 - United States - Saukville
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Hahaha, I don't know who got the shittiest end of the stick: you, your boyfriend or your sister. That'll be some awkward family conversations. Good luck.
stick[ stik ] noun 1. a branch or shoot of a tree or shrub that has been cut or broken off. 2. a relatively long and slender piece of wood. 3. a long piece of wood for use as fuel, in carpentry, etc. That's from dictionary.com. I don't see anything about only having 2 ends so I guess a stick can indeed have 3 ends...
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Wow. Well, maybe he's just weird! If he treats you well, just talk to him about these, um, strange fashions and don't dump him IMMEDIATELY! After that, do what ever:)
The stealing is the only dumpable offense I see here. I don't think it's common, but some guys that like to dress up in women's clothes are straight. Why not try talking to him instead of crapping all over him. He may be really shy about the whole thing and couldn't figure out how to buy makeup when he was wearing men's clothes. He could have been terrified that you'd dump him if you knew he liked those clothes. Be a cool dude, lady, and actually talk to the guy.
80 - Actually, studies say that most crossdressers are straight. So it is, in fact, common. Otherwise, I agree with your comment whole heartedly. If a guy dumped his girlfriend for dressing too "boyish", then most people would say he was a jerk. But God forbid if a guy dresses too "girly".
HM. I don't really understand why your boyfriends cross-dressing is such a big problem. If it were me, I wouldn't be bitching about something my boyfriend enjoys.
If he wants to dress up as a girl and is comfortable wearing women's clothing then so be it. As long as he's the same person on the inside that's what counts. Yes it would be a shock to hear at first, but if you really loved him you'd try to find a way to cope with who he is. At least I would hope. Hopefully OP's boyfriend (or ex) will find someone who understands him or is willing to one day.
if he wants to dress as a girl he probably doesn't 100% want to be a man and most likely isn't 100% straight. thumb me down I don't care. ops Boyfriend clearly isn't ready for a relationship with her regardless if he's hiding this from her. I don't have anything against drag queens but that is exactly what they are! queens! not kings. it would be ridiculous to stay in a relationship with someone who wants to be a woman if you are a woman and you are straight.
Crossdressing has nothing to do with sexuality. And it doesn't necesarily mean he's a transwoman either. It's what he feels comfortable wearing. There are plenty of woman who crossdress and they don't get criticized like crossdressing men. But I can agree that he should've told OP before the relationship; because its too hard to explain himself in that kind of situation.
Wait a sec. Don't jump to conclusions yet, maybe he's an undercover agent who plays a transvestite.
Talk to him about it. Just because he wears women's clothing, doesn't mean he's swinging the other way. He may be curious, or likes the way it feels! I'd be upset that he stole my makeup though . :( A looong time ago, I remember my mom knew a couple, they came over for dinner and brought their daughter. The Dad enjoyed wearing women's clothing, so I thought that was rather odd. But they were a functional family.