By Anonyme - 04/10/2016 20:37 - Lebanon - Beirut
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Lock the door. If she has a key get the locks changed. If your not living there then this is a red flag, Dump him...
You should get out while you still can, y'all get married that'll be you and not his sister
This depends... is she coming over every day? Week? Month? If it's every month maybe they're really good brother and sister and they just like to check on each other. If her main purpose is to come and clean them then leave that's different... but by this story there's many questions left unanswered.
op are you sure it's his sister ? it could be a lie and he could be cheating on you
Ever think she lost a bet as a teenager to him. That requires her to do his dishes
How is this any different than hiring a maid?
maybe, just maybe, he pays her.
Sounds like a nice sister to me, maybe she gets bored and likes cleaning? I know of a few people like that.
I'm personally a little disgusted that the dishes are only getting washed once a week, regardless of who is washing them. It is suggested that dishes get done every day, and trash gets taken out every day in order to not get bugs...I do mine AT LEAST every other day...
Sister or not, are you sure the dishes are all she's doing?
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That should be a big red flag about how much he'll help around the house and his attitude toward the division of domestic tasks. If you don't want to be the one responsible for all the cooking, cleaning and child care, consider very carefully where this relationship is heading.
The problem is that he is a grown ass man that should have learned by now to wash his own dishes instead of expecting someone else to do it for him, especially if they pile up.