Today, a good friend refuses to speak to me because she found out that I slept with her husband. It happened twelve years before they met. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, I found out that my husband of 12 years has been sleeping with my best friend of even longer for who knows how long. She actually tried to turn it around on me and implied that it was my fault for finding out about it. FML
Today, I went back home for a visit after nearly 10 years. I met up with some old friends at a bar and had an amazing evening. Afterwards, two of the wives told me I’m never allowed to speak to, nor see their husbands again, since I slept with them in high school. This was years before they even met. FML
Today, my best friend of 10 years told me she had slept with a man who had a girlfriend. I told her that it wasn't that bad. She then informed me that it was my boyfriend. FML
Today, my best friend of 18 years decided to end our friendship in order to continue sleeping with her brother-in-law, who is also my ex. FML
Today, I found out the only reason why a friend of mine even bothered talking to me. He thought that I'd sleep with him if he was nice enough. FML
Today my best friend called me at 6 a.m., ranting and accusing me of sleeping with her husband. I live two hours away and haven't seen him in person in over six months. FML
Today, my fiancée called off our wedding, because she found out I had sex with another woman. Three years before we even met. FML
Today, my now ex-girlfriend posted on Facebook that I called her a "fucking bitch". Our mutual friends were all outraged, and demanded that I treat her with respect. What she failed to mention was that I said it after finding out that she's been sleeping with my "best friend" for the past year. FML
Today, I ruined my friendship of 12 years. Important backstory: he had kind of bullied me growing up but we became friends when we got older. Long story short, he dumped his partner of several years and got back together with his ex on the same day. I took the partner's side instead of his. FML
Today, I was visited by a high school friend who lives in another state. She was furious because I got married a few months ago, and she kinda had feelings for me. I had to ask her to leave. Here's the funny thing: she's been married for 4 years and they have a son, and she didn't even invite me to her wedding back then. FML
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really_dad? 14
Didn't she break the girl code for dating someone you slept with? Throw it in her face op
sororitytaylor 24
I mean...did you never mention it the entire time they were dating/got married? I'd be pretty pissed if you deliberately hid something like that from me, too.
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Comments (27)
Sinshine 28
To the people saying she should have told her friend: What was she supposed to say? "Meet my new boyfriend.This is John." "Oh hey I had sex with this guy 20 years ago. Long time no see, John!" sounds just as silly as "Hey can I talk to you for a moment? I just wanted to tell you that two decades ago I had sex with this guy you're seeing right now."
PandoraPeace 10
But I've been in this situation and I told my friend... it was awkward but she was glad I told her and it made it a lot less uncomfortable for me and him when. we would all hang out
Suaria 38
When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I told him about how a mutual friend of ours and I had kissed. He was fine with us remaining friends.
Rykers 18
Good friend but didn't tell her something I'd consider pretty substantial. How did this not come up when they were first dating?
Dax Boldajar 12
Ok for those who can’t/don’t read: OP slept with NOW ‘besties’ hubby 12 years /BEFORE/ ‘bestist’ and now hubby even /KNEW/ each other.....so wtf would OP bring that up?!?!
EnvyMe33 26
OP, she’s mad because she must be the jealous type and the fact you know what her husband looks like and feels like in bed it pisses her off. Give it time she might need to come to her senses and realize that y’all didn’t hook up while they were together. Petty shit like this is why women suck!
stormy0307 16
To top it off. OP had the newer model of the husband too.
Cinn_fml 23
A quick read through the comments seems to imply that the only way to prevent this is for couples to undergo a full discloser of who they've previously slept with when they become serious/exclusive. I mean, seriously, this happened years before the two met (let alone dated), how many people ask their partners to tell them about previous dates, especially from so long ago?
jess99o 6
omg people. she said 12 years BEFORE her and her husband met. not that they've been together for 12 years. smh
ProperPengTing 15
Shouldve told her when “they” met.
Friesian 7
I personally would have been pissed because my personal policy is to not date dudes that are still friends with past flings. It was always too much of a chore with the women still thinking they owned him or that they should hold a significant place in his life or should be more important to him bc they knew him longer, etc, etc. Also, depending on how she found out, she might feel betrayed. Like, he could have brought up in a fight or she could have found some memorabilia or something. You never know.
stormy0307 16
Basically you are taking the cowards way out. "It's simply easier to ban my man from talking to other girls than it is to work hard enough to make sure he chooses me as the most important girl in his life". Grow up, functioning relationships take effort, not ultimatums.
thatslifeiguess7 16
oh god its like Elaine on seinfeld