I get it. Its easier to sleep with someone you've already slept with before. Its not about you personally, its about a wife being protective of her home. They don't know you like that and you've had sex with their husbands and haven't been around in a decade. Old sparks can fly and their just being prudent. Dont take it personally.

Makes sense. Especially if you're still hot and they've let themselves go. A little nostalgia is ok, but you don't want to get stuck in "Glory Days."

Guess they don’t have much trust in their spouses. It sucks but it sounds like a pile of drama you don’t need in your life anyway.

Sounds like the wives are insecure or their marriages are not as good as they say they are

I’ll be honest, I expect my wife would be a bit suspicious if I met up with an ex. But it’s not on the ex, it’s on me to respect my wife, by avoiding what could be the appearance of something off.

Do they not realize if you wanted their husbands you probably could've had them and they would've never met said husband? Lol. So really you sleeping with them helped them find their happiness in a round about way in my opinion lol

This kind of attitude is always so ****** if you ask me. I guess some people can't realize that the past is in the past. I feel sorry that you lost a couple of friends.