By Anonymous - 8/1/2020 20:00 - United States - San Francisco

Three kids?

Today, I got the results proving if my ex-girlfriend's kid was mine. The results came back negative and I can't have kids. This wouldn't be a problem if I didn't have 3 kids with my wife. FML
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By  MidnaLink  |  32

Just to be absolutely sure this isn’t some weirdo case of bad luck, get a paternity test on all 3 kids. I hate to say it, but chances are your wife will confess to an affair… or she’ll be just as confused as you are if the results come back favorable. Either way, good luck going forward. Oh, and make sure NOTHING AND NO ONE interferes with the results.

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By  MidnaLink  |  32

Just to be absolutely sure this isn’t some weirdo case of bad luck, get a paternity test on all 3 kids. I hate to say it, but chances are your wife will confess to an affair… or she’ll be just as confused as you are if the results come back favorable. Either way, good luck going forward. Oh, and make sure NOTHING AND NO ONE interferes with the results.

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  ImpKit  |  7

Um... no. If anything it would imply his wife cheated on him. If the ex-girlfriend's kid is 4+ in years, which is totally feasible to assume, then there's no reason to believe whatsoever that he cheated on his wife. Meanwhile if he is completely infertile... she had to cheat on him.

Also, you're ignoring the possibility of a poly situation. If the girlfriend's kid is brand new then he could have been dating her simultaneous to marriage to his wife without it being cheating. In this scenario the wife would have known about and been consenting to the extra-marital relationship.

By  J15237  |  19

Now you really need to make a choice. Do you just let it go and enjoy the 3 children who have been calling you daddy or do you disrupt your life? Honestly though its not the kids fault that your wife is clearly a slut. I am sorry to say that, but its the truth. I would not want to be in your shoes, but I would come out and ask my wife for the truth and then see if you guys can clear it up. However, do your best to make sure the kids know its not their fault.

By  Sady_Ct  |  36

I was with a man for 5 years and we tried for a child and it didn’t happen. Tests showed he was completely infertile. We split due to his being a mammas boy, and his next lady was pregnant within 6 months.

They now have two kids and have been married for 3 years, with both kids showing as genetically his. I have also been pregnant twice with two mid stage miscarriages.

Tests can be wrong. A paternity test won’t show if you are infertile either.