Love, Mental health and Awkward: This doesn't feel nice

This doesn't feel nice

By bloodsuckerr - 09/02/2024 23:00 - United States

Today, my boyfriend is acting more distanced, leaving me on seen or delivered. We do long distance, he’s supposed to come visit me in three weeks. I don't know what to think. He’s always been sweet and stuff, but now it feels like he’s not trying. This makes my stomach hurt. FML

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By Anonymous - 25/07/2009 02:35 - Brazil

Today, my long-distance boyfriend was at my house for a 10-day visit. He told me that we'd never spent so much time together, so he didn't know me well and now, he'd finally met the "real me". He doesn't like it. FML

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Alexa, play "Mind Games" by John Lennon

By Anonymous - 13/04/2024 06:00 - United States - Odenton

Today, my boyfriend was cold and distant with me, after holding me the day before and telling me to my face we were OK and that he wasn’t upset anymore. I tried to give him space originally but he insisted he didn’t need it. Now i just feel stupid. FML

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By hanzastfu - 26/10/2009 17:25 - United States

Today, I was spending time with my boyfriend for the first time in two weeks. I started tearing up and telling him that I feel like he never has time for me anymore. He responded with, "I'm hungry." FML

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Long distance

By DumpedGirl89 - 22/06/2021 14:01

Today, my long-distance boyfriend decided to tell me he found a girl in his hometown he’s become attracted to, and that he doesn’t love me anymore. He says we can "still be friends." I’d just driven 100 miles to see him. FML

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By Anonymous - 16/12/2018 12:30

My long-distance partner came to visit me for the weekend. When he arrived he seemed moody and tired, and refused any kind of physical contact. Upset, I asked him what was wrong. Turns out he's mad for coming to see me because I've put on weight, making the trip a waste of his time. FML

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By jlee0000785 - 17/09/2012 14:15 - Australia

Today, the guy I have been seeing left town to visit his family for three weeks. A few hours later, he called me from the airport to say he is never coming back. FML

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By whatever - 24/11/2012 07:02 - Canada - Calgary

Today, my long-distance boyfriend broke up with me. Tomorrow he should be getting the super long love letter that I poured my heart into and sent him a week ago. FML

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The old "It's not you, it's me"

By WhoopsIDidItAgain - 14/07/2022 01:00 - United States - Fremont

Today, my boyfriend of 3 months decided to end our long-distance relationship out of the blue, because he "lost interest" and "our families don't approve" and "you deserve better than me" and "I'm holding you back." He took my heart and shattered against the wall. FML

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By Kitty - 23/04/2009 08:54 - Singapore

Today, my boyfriend told me he needed to reconsider coming to see me for financial reasons. I'm the one paying for the airfare, giving him a place to stay, and covering his expenses while he's here. FML

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By Leftattheairport - 09/02/2019 18:00

Today, I went to pick up my long distance boyfriend at the airport. It has been over six months since I last saw him and four days since I last heard from him. He never showed up. FML

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gigamesh 5

Saturday 10 February 2024 16:12

if you're that worried just ask him cause communication is best

easybree 9

Saturday 10 February 2024 21:23

just ask him! I’m sorry op, me and my bf broke up about a month ago. at first it hurt, but now I’m so happy! be prepared for anything OP. trust me though, you’ll get through this!!

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D J's MOM 17

Saturday 10 February 2024 16:03

how long have you been together? because it sounds like he found someone else, that's usually the reason they start acting that way. if he doesn't show he owes you an explanation. if you don't get one then find someone who deserves you, just don't go looking, the right one will find you.

gigamesh 5

Saturday 10 February 2024 16:12

if you're that worried just ask him cause communication is best

easybree 9

Saturday 10 February 2024 21:23

just ask him! I’m sorry op, me and my bf broke up about a month ago. at first it hurt, but now I’m so happy! be prepared for anything OP. trust me though, you’ll get through this!!

FluffythePink 19

Sunday 11 February 2024 9:08

Seriously, just flat out ask him. A quite simple 'should I bother preparing for your visit or do we just call it quits right here?' Don't torture yourself with not knowing. It's just not worth it. Get your answer and either deal with the problem causing his issues or move on. Yes, break ups hurt but the sooner they're done with the sooner you can get back to living your life and enjoying things again. 🫂