Time to get some new parents. I'd ghost them. it's their loss. Or if you want you can lie and say you are infertile.

Do what makes you happy, not the family

It's totally understandable. Most people find that parenting children is very difficult and demands sacrifice, but being a grandparent is pure joy. You're screwing them out of the good part and you are just paying the consequences.

This sucks op, I’m really sorry.

thank **** my family didn't act like this when I told them my husband and I don't want kids

Buhahahah! Stick to your guns! Children are not the be all and end all, so many unloved and neglected kids out there, so many little ***** cos the parents couldn’t be bothered raising decent little humans. I applaud you OP, you are a light in the darkness.

I am Child free, and my fiancé and I have medical reasons that if we pass onto the kids... we aren't having our own kids, we would be adopting. And we aren't at a stage where we want kids in the mix. My mom is ok with my choice as long as it was my choice and not just his, the potential mother in law wanted to name our kids, and is kinda upset she is having grandpuppies...

Ha! Do you need help showing her how stupid and condescending her “Bible” is? I’m a pastor’s kid

Sounds like a win.

I hope those people and their community don’t call themselves Christians.