By Anonymous - 2/4/2020 05:00 - United States

Drama abounds

Today, my girlfriend of 3 years threatened to break up with me because when she came by my work, she saw me talking to another girl. The girl was a trainee. I'm the boss of the company, so it's my responsibility to train new people. FML
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By  Marcella1016  |  29

I completely agree with all the other comments that this could be a red flag.

BUT we also must consider that OP could be someone who flirts, and THAT is what his GF had a problem with. We are hearing his side of the story. Sure, he was training her, but there is also the possibility that he was getting a little cozy.

I dealt with this personally with an emotionally abusive ex who used to flirt in front of me ALL THE TIME and give me a BS “I’m just talking and making friends because I just moved here” line. Thankfully I grew some self esteem and eventually moved on to someone who actually respects me.

TL;DR: 2 sides to every story. GF could be crazy, OP could be a sexuality-oozing flirt (giggity?), could be a bit of both.

Take solace in knowing that we will never know.

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  julfunky  |  29

We don’t need to “take solace” because we are in no way affected by this.

And we don’t need to consider both sides to an anonymous story. Unless it sounds made up you take it at face value, not find a million other explanations.

By  limeychefboy  |  14

Just got out of an abusive toxic relationship myself, been there and can only advise you to leave her now. Right now before it gets worse, you could try explaining to her about how hard it will be to go thru life without interacting with females but i cant see her understanding that part...

By  Amtrying  |  4

That's a huge red flag. You definitely need to have a talk with her at minimum. If she has no reason to mistrust you she's probably the one cheating.