By Anonymous - 10/2/2021 12:01 - United States - Longmont

Don't Give Up

Today, I looked at cute baby clothes while my friend was in the check-out line at JC Penny. It made me want to cry. I'm almost 33, childless, and so unattractive I couldn't pay someone to be into me. FML
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By  motoikkyu  |  13

Your issue is not lack of attractiveness, it has to do with self-esteem and self-image. I assure you "every pot has a lid", you can and will find someone to love you for yourself, as you are. This can only happen when you can actually love yourself. For some, that requires some therapy and you shouldn't be afraid to do that, it's totally worth it. I know folks that are downright hideous, who never have a moment's problem getting a date due to their amazing confidence. I wish you a chance at true happiness, even a gargoyle like me has found it a few times in this lifetime.

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By  motoikkyu  |  13

Your issue is not lack of attractiveness, it has to do with self-esteem and self-image. I assure you "every pot has a lid", you can and will find someone to love you for yourself, as you are. This can only happen when you can actually love yourself. For some, that requires some therapy and you shouldn't be afraid to do that, it's totally worth it. I know folks that are downright hideous, who never have a moment's problem getting a date due to their amazing confidence. I wish you a chance at true happiness, even a gargoyle like me has found it a few times in this lifetime.

By  Funnygirl25  |  4

Ok. First of all I doubt you are unattractive. If you're anything like me then you have low self esteem and are scared of getting into relationships in fear of getting hurt. Don't let that hold you back. I'm sure men will be breaking down your door once you get a little self confidence.
Plus, if you're ready and able to have a child then why wait for a man? You can adopt or foster or you could even use a sperm donation. There are plenty of options for a single woman to have children by herself.
Keep your chin up and don't let self doubt get the better of you. You're going to be fine xxx

By  coius  |  23

As a male, who before couldn’t get a male to even look my way, I found confidence in yourself is the game changer. After finding confidence in myself, I saw a lot of things in my life change. I got my dream job, I dates very pretty girls and am married right now even though I’m physically disabled. Looks has nothing to do with it. But if your self confidence is catchy, and it helps others feel good about themselves, it makes them come to you. Keep at it. I’m 36, married, no kids (but am trying) but it has taken 13 years to realize things weren’t how I thought they were. Confidence in yourself and others, plus kindness will get you everywhere and make people flock to you. It’s all charisma and attitude. And if you don’t have charisma, well.. fake it till you make it!

By  Brightside86  |  23

Now I'm racking my mind trying to think of any girls too unattractive to be in a relationship and I can't think of any.

Even those I find personally unattractive have no trouble dating, and really if they took better care of themselves and put their best foot forward they could increase their attractiveness if it was something important to them.