Rookie mistake! A man expressing feelings of vulnerability to a woman? That won't work. As much progress toward gender equality as has been made, that's probably going to be one of the last double-standards to fall. Until then, when you feel bad, just get drunk and watch sports.

I didn't mean to touch the "you deserve it" button. It sounds like, sadly, that your wife is an abusive asshole and you have some thinking to do. For me, it would be counseling, both individual and couples, or divorce. I'd like to smack her!

You're married to a narcissist.

that's when u tell her "if u don't care about me I'll find a woman who will!

That's really a shame. If my husband wanted to express his thoughts and feelings on serious matters, I'd listen up and be thrilled to do so.

She sounds charming.

that is so disrespectful. i would never say that to my husband. a wife shouldn't be that way . you have some thinking to do. that is not what being married is.