By loling - United Kingdom

Communication Breakdown

Today, I found out a guy I had a thing with a while back thinks I am obsessed with him. This is because when he said that we should be friends, I stupidly thought he was being sincere and bothered to call him all of three times in the last five months. Clearly a sign of obsession. FML
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  iSwag  |  0

He sounds like one of those guys that thinks he's "the shit" but really isnt so when somebody talks to him more than once he turns it into "stalking" or they're "obsessed" with him and tells his friends about his "problem" so he can feel validated.

I know people like that. They swear some girl is stalking them and when i see said girl shes flirting with some other guy and when i talk to said girl, said guy, doesnt even come into the conversation....ever. FHL for being a loser

  ShadowsGirl  |  5

omg. i was in similar situation too. one of my guy friends felt bad for "breaking" my heart when told me that he knew about my crushed and that he wanted to stay friend. when will people learn? some crush is just something to entertain you when you have nothing better to do. he thought i was obsessing over him when i called to ask if he wanted the book back that he had lent to me at the end of the semester. >.>

  Ouroboros_fml  |  0

maybe you have a doppelgänger, or a secret twin your parents hide from you, and that other person stalks him and watches him through his window. or maybe you're batshit crazy, and you sleepstalk him (like sleepwalking, but creepier), just some thoughts, have a good day, ladyperson.

  repyourcliche  |  0

whit? naw, i mean i think the guy was being sarcastic by saying he talks to her twice a year, in that he is mocking OP's boyfriend. i, however, unlike snick, am human and capable of admitting a mistake, if he was in fact being serious...

  sourgirl101  |  28

I agree. The times she did call, she probly tried to keep him on the phone as long as posible. You are clearly trying to find reasons to contact him and he called you out on it. Crazy!

  sourgirl101  |  28

3 times in 5 months is alot if you don't want to speak to that someone. The guy just didn't have the balls to say that he didn't want to be friends not wanting to hurt her feelings. Too bad she's clueless. I'm sure the 1st time she called he didn't end the call with 'nice to hear from you, call me again soon'. Take the hint and move on. Doesn't sound like you did yet!