That's so terrible you missed your wedding, you must feel so awful. I'm sorry, OP. Your bride will of course be upset, but you just have to explain what happened and remind her you do love her enough to want to bind yourself to her for eternity. Ignore what everyone else thinks, this is between you and your woman.

How is she your wife if you never actually turned up? To me it seems that you just don't care. You didn't even make the effort to set an alarm, if I was your woman and things like this were a common occurrence, I'd probably walk out on you. Lesson learned for next time though hey?

Why didn't you set an alarm?

You gotta be a man and man up; be responsible for your own self. YDI

You people are just terrible. OP made one mistake, that doesn't mean they shouldn't be together at all. He was probably at the venue and didn't have a phone or an alarm clock on him. Even if he did, they aren't always reliable.

Umm wouldn't your brother remember as soon as he noticed you weren't there and everyone was wondering where you were?

Why didn't anybody come looking for you?

Why didn't you just do the logical thing and set an alarm. I am sure you own a cell phone that's from at least 2001 and that means it has an alarm. YDI for putting your responsibilities in someone else's hands.

Wow that really sucks!!! Your brother is an IDIOT and your another one for relying on him.

You did run out on your wife