Body positivity

So, prove him wrong and go for a walk. Maybe call some of your girl friends over and make it a group thing. Also, maybe he is stressed about something else. Talk to him.

Weight is definitely the problem. So drop his and get someone who won't talk to you like that!

That is really ridicules. You should prove him wrong, get yourself looking the way you want to and then leave that looser and go find yourself someone who will appreciate what they have.

Leave as soon as you safely can, being with someone putting you down isn't going to help you get fitter or slimmer.

That's a weird thing to say, also losing weight is way more about calorie intake then it is calorie burning. Best of luck.

what an ahole

Probably.

Beginning to think? I think you're a bit slow on the uptake. ydi

You should start by doing two things. 1. Being healthier and potentially losing weight, for yourself and only yourself and 2. Have a heart to heart with your bf about any deeper issues to see if it can be resolved. But if he’s a jerk about it and really can’t love you the way you are now than dump him and keep bettering yourself, whatever that might mean to you

So he's an asshole AND an idiot? Dump him. No one deserves to be spoken to like that.

Well, if you dump him, that's 200+ pounds right there.