Bad start

By Shamu - 20/04/2022 00:00

Today, after 4 years of being single, I decided to go back to the dating scene. I downloaded Tinder. My matches run for the hills as soon as I show them a full body pic of myself. One guy even told me to delete the app from my phone, because if “guys wanted to go whaling, they’d go out to sea.” FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 709
You deserved it 360

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slhiggx 17

Consider having a full body pic already on your profile. This is filter out the asshoes.

There are so many opinions about body types! I know several guys that go desperately want a thicker gal. I personally can't stand buff guys and want them to look like they're about to pass out. Go figure. I can't understand any of it, but I can say there is a market for everyone 😃

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Maybe try a dating site that's less reliant on photos? There are guys who are into BBWs and you just need to find a site for them. OKMoby?

slhiggx 17

Consider having a full body pic already on your profile. This is filter out the asshoes.

There are so many opinions about body types! I know several guys that go desperately want a thicker gal. I personally can't stand buff guys and want them to look like they're about to pass out. Go figure. I can't understand any of it, but I can say there is a market for everyone 😃

That's the surprise you get when you give the surprise reveal. Try being up front from the go.

There’s plenty of guys into big girls myself included. Dont give up hope

If you actually are a bigger woman, try a side that caters to chubby chasers. And there are plenty of them, myself included. If not…ditch Tinder anyway; it sounds like a cesspool.

screw those guys there is someone out there for you.

People who hate fat people should be the ones to put "I hate fat people and haven't dismantled my fatphobia" in their profiles so they can be avoided, not the other way around. Fat people aren't problematic just for existing. Your "preferences" should be clear on your profile so the people that fall into those categories can ignore your profile.

No one is everyone's cup of tea, that guy sounds like a jerk, hang in there and don't take it to heart, there are loads worse things a person can be than overweight! There are people out there who will think you are the most beautiful person the have ever seen! "Good mood, bad mood, ugly, pretty, handsome, what have you, the right person will still think the sun shines out your ass. That's the kind of person that's worth sticking with.”~Junos dad.