What a lovely guy

By pull your goddamn weight! - 15/08/2022 17:00 - United States

Today, I got into a fight with my husband. I told him we’re a stereotypical couple, where the wife is exhausted from doing all the housework and raising the kids. He looked me in the eye and told me I’m lucky he’s still around after how I “let myself go after the third kid.” I have diastasis recti. FML
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Same thing different taste

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Girl, & that’s when you should walk the **** away. Let him do it without you

She means that because of pregnancy, her abdominal muscles separated. You can be thin and still have it. Your tummy will « bulge out ». You can try to do very specific exercises to lessen the problem, but it takes time. (Normal exercices may worsen the problem). After 3 pregnancy it may be harder. A surgery can be the solution if you risk hernia.

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Girl, & that’s when you should walk the **** away. Let him do it without you

Diastasis recti is a treatable condition not an excuse to let your body go...

So, I guess that means no anal sex? I'm afraid to Google it, but I'm guessing it means you have a jacked-up rectum.

She means that because of pregnancy, her abdominal muscles separated. You can be thin and still have it. Your tummy will « bulge out ». You can try to do very specific exercises to lessen the problem, but it takes time. (Normal exercices may worsen the problem). After 3 pregnancy it may be harder. A surgery can be the solution if you risk hernia.

Extra rank, OP. Sorry. Even if you didn't have a painful medical condition this would be a ****** up thing to say to someone. Divorce might be in your future.

I will drive over there and help you hide the body.

Time for a divorce because he basically just said he does not give a shit about you, if he truly loves you your body would not be an issue ,he sounds like a real jackass time to nail him with a ton of child support.

or she could just exercise a bit and maybe have minor surgery...this doesn't have to be a big deal.

The old "destroy her self-esteem so she'll be grateful to work like a dog for me". Call his bluff. If he does cheat, take half his shit. If he doesn't, hand him a broom.