i am so sorry but please don't tell her what they say

What a hurtful and disrespectful lot. Please do talk to them to know if they can cease their harrassment. If they don't, your girlfriend, who is a normal human being, must be kept distanced from them. Do apologize to your GF on your disdainful family's behalf. Imma assume your family will never accept her so keep them at distance if they choose not too. Sorry about this, OP. Fuck her life as well.

Then your family is absolute crap for treating someone that way. If you love her then great, they don't need to be in your life to see you happy. Family or not

Hi. My trans girlfriend is pre-op but even so, my family adore her because they can see that I am really happy for the first time in years. The problem is not her, it's them. Well done for having the courage to stick with her. Screw your family, they clearly don't care about your happiness. She does, however. Leave them, stick with her. Good luck!

I am sorry your family has no respect for you. your love for someone is not based on their genitals, but on how they make you feel about yourself and vice versa. good luck with your relationship in spite of your families lack of respect.

What a horrible bunch they are. I would cease contacts with them, not only cos they are mean and disrespectful towards your girlfriend but also cos they sound toxic and ignorant.

Drop your so called family. Keep your gf safe. Association with trash like your family isn't good for her or your relationship. Tell them to back the fuck off and make arrangements to remove them from your life.