Toxic masculinity FTW
Today, I found that my boyfriend and his friend sends nudes of other girls to each other and then comment on them. When I confronted him, I was told that I was wrong for being upset "because this is just what men do". FML
Today, I found that my boyfriend and his friend sends nudes of other girls to each other and then comment on them. When I confronted him, I was told that I was wrong for being upset "because this is just what men do". FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend was extremely angry. He found a naked photograph of me online that he thought I'd been sending to other guys. It wasn't me. FML
Today, I found nudes on my boyfriend's phone. We've been together 14 years. They weren't of me. FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend likes to show his female co-workers his dick, by emailing them pictures of it. I found out when he included my email address in with theirs. FML
Today, I found out that while I was pregnant, my boyfriend asked at least one other woman for nudes. He claims it was a drunk mistake and wants to "keep his little family together." FML
Today, I found out that my husband thinks it's okay to have an online girlfriend and have naked pictures sent to his email, because he's not "physically touching, making love, or kissing." The sad part is that the online girlfriend gets more action than me. FML
Today, I found out that my boyfriend is still liking other semi-naked girls at Instagram, even though I'd told him a month ago that it makes me feel insecure. It's time to say goodbye to him; I can't find a man with integrity. FML
Today, I discovered my boyfriend of 5 months runs a website where men can submit nude or semi nude pictures of their ex's for revenge. FML
Today, after my boyfriend told me I didn’t have to worry about the ex who kept commenting on his pictures, I saw him sexting her when I leaned forward to tell him something from the back of our friend's car. FML
Today, my boyfriend blackmailed me for nudes. When I told his mother, he convinced her it was a joke, and both were laughing at me for being "paranoid". He now wants me to apologise for "ruining his day". FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend has a secret phone that's full of fake names and profiles (all his) and other women's nudes, with fake email accounts and social media accounts. He “wants us to work it out.” FML
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Top comments
Xatraris 38
No, this is not just what men do. It's an invasion of privacy. And even if it's photos they may have found online, there is no reason to even send those to friends. He is definitely wrong, and seeing that he doesn't care, I would definitely get out of that relationship asap.
cacheson 42
You should ask him why you can’t get in on this judgement of women’s bodies too! But seriously, tell him about how it makes you feel and ask him how he would feel if he were you or even one of those girls in the pictures getting commented on.
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Comments (18)
Ambrily 27
Is he still your boyfriend?
cacheson 42
You should ask him why you can’t get in on this judgement of women’s bodies too! But seriously, tell him about how it makes you feel and ask him how he would feel if he were you or even one of those girls in the pictures getting commented on.
Xatraris 38
No, this is not just what men do. It's an invasion of privacy. And even if it's photos they may have found online, there is no reason to even send those to friends. He is definitely wrong, and seeing that he doesn't care, I would definitely get out of that relationship asap.
J1523 9
You should consider leaving him. That feels like he is going to try physically cheating on you. Or sending out your nudes to his friends.
spinspinsugar 12
you mean like anon-ib? yeah that site can go **** itself.
xxlk4xx 6
found our my ex husband used to do that ro me, idk who saw what kinds of pictures of me but it was really upsetting 😡 sorry you're dealing with this! you are not wrong for being upset.
juggalo2 22
The only people who should be offended are the girls in the pictures. If you don't want your nudes circulating, you'd better not take/send them. If more than one person has it, it's not private/secret.
GiAndrea Mitchell 4
You obviously do the same thing huh bud
juggalo2 22
Look at and comment on pictures of nude women? Yes.
Hangryko 32
Her boyfriend shared that photo without her consent which is a violation of her privacy and a crime. Thanks for outing yourself as a victim blamer so women can now avoid you.
Wadlaen 24
As a man myself I can tell you that I have never sent or received nudes, nor have I heard of this 'trend' before, so no, this is not something all men do.
Brightside86 31
When it's just locker room talk, except outside of the locker room and in picture form.
Luke Whareaitu 2
This is what men do though