Today, while with a large group of friends, my best friend started talking about my struggles with dating and intimacy. I quietly asked her to stop talking about it, as it was personal and I wasn't comfortable with everyone else knowing. Her response? "Um, it's really none of your business." FML
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guitarki 11
Hey, OP here. I made an account so that I could comment. When it happened, there was nothing I could say to her to make her stop. I asked her several times to please stop talking about it, and I was so embarrassed, but she wouldn't listen to me. I ended up just getting my stuff together and leaving. I'm not very close to the people in the group, so I felt uncomfortable with being so exposed to them. I talked to her afterwards in private and told her that it was really uncool of her to keep talking about it when I asked her to stop. She claimed that she didn't think it was that big of a deal, since when I told her at the time, I didn't say that it was meant to be a secret. I guess I just never thought to let her know that I didn't want her to blab to everyone about my personal issues. She also made sure to clarify to me that when she said it wasn't any of my business, she meant that it was not my conversation to butt into, even though I was literally right beside her. This incident made me realize that she really isn't a very good friend to me. She has never acted this way until recently, so I never thought to avoid telling her things. I do know that I'll definitely not be confiding in her anymore though.
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Georgia0p 17
I'd reconsider calling her your 'best' friend
MrsPegg 45
Quite the friend you have there OP. Surely hope you put her in her place and took up for yourself since she obviously has no respect for you! Definitely don't trust her anymore...
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MrDonSalvetti 27
Bitchslap her! If she asks you why, just say "Uhm, that's really none of your business"
teentee401 37
Her telling your business is none of your business? Alright.
m_warner1 14
I feel like there is more to this story... People generally are not as blind or insensitive as the OP is suggesting their friend is.
MrDonSalvetti 27
You have too much faith in humanity my friend...
m_warner1 14
Maybe so
telli164 30
What a dipshit of a friend.. I hope you find a better friend soon OP!
KxHoneyCombxP 24
I agree with you. You are in dire need of a best friend. Did you know she was a bitch before this happened?
Nat52482 25
I would have punched her in the ovaries.
uchua 16
Sounds like your best friend is a royal bitch.
TheSgLeader 21
If she said it was none of your business, maybe she was talking about herself.
CaroAurelia 12
Your business isn't your business? Dump that bitch.
Neekovolwf 22
I suggest to start talking about her problems. And then state it's none of her business if she tries to interject.