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damn... that's terrible. how did it take you so long to realise though? when it happened to my friend it only took about a week for him to realise

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Well OP, I'm sorry but this is one of those where after a few months of realizing you haven't even kissed her that maybe it's not what you think.

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36-some girls these days kiss their "friends", he may have thought they were going slow and the kisses they shared were special if they did kiss, giving things extra meaning and reading into them like we tend to, especially when we are young

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74 I highly doubt he was imagining all those things. She clearly used him and probably got him to buy her things and take her places. Lots of girls are like this, they'll flirt with guys they don't like because they love to feel that someone finds them attractive.

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sucks man. not to be offensive but you obviously don't know a lot about relationships. you were probably freinds with benifets or just misunderstood. oh well ita a learning experience

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111- I didn't mean to give the impression that she wasn't taking advantage of that, but that that may be a possible scenario or perhaps even her excuse

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For whatever reason that this thing failed miserably, all you can do is learn from it and cut her out. Even if you were completely off base, it took months for her to say this. Do it because she needs to learn not to trifle. More importantly, do it because you're a man not to be trifled with

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My friend did this not to long ago. She was "dating" my boyfriends best friend so we would always go on double dates, and they would hold hands, kiss, lovey dovey, then bam. Nothing. Broke his heart. :

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yeah because one time I texted a guy for like 4 months. he mentioned nothing of a relationship or interest in me, but got mad that I hooked up with a guy I really like. because he thought we were an item or something

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120. don't do that. I think I am goin through that. the girl I am friends with and in love with came to me last week an asked me if I knew she was now single. I did not and she was going on a date that night. it just hurt me that first, she didn't give me a chance. The way he treats me is different than any other guy, so I thought there could be something between us. don't flirt if your not interested. Guys follow that rule, girls should to. Also ne'er forget the golden guy friend rule; if they

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Wait, would or wouldn't? No girl I've been good friends with for more than a month or so has ever wanted to 'date' me. Semper Fraternus: once 'just a friend', always 'just a friend'. There are always exceptions, but the rule stands.

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131 you should've grown some balls and asked her out. The guy I got really close to last week and have been texting since has asked me out twice. If you didn't have the balls to ask, you deserve what you get

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I think I know this girl. Or I would if she wasn't in Norway... These girls are all cows. Sorry to any bovines.

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Yeah, her moms right... She has been leading him on... Sorry OP, your girlfriend was a lie.

I think it's her cowardly way of breaking up with you. Surely within those few months of dating, you guys would have kissed or held hands and that would have clearly signaled something more than a friendship.

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true two people can hook up with no sort of relationship. but since op said they've been "dating" I'd assume they have also gone on dates. usually if you're just hooking up with someone for the hookup you don't see each other much otherwise. at the very least she's stupid for not realizing op's intentions. more likely she was using him and then months later started feeling bad about it.

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I've gone on dates with girls I'm not dating....people just assume too much. I mean you can't consider someone your girlfriend until they say it. So obviously she didn't say they were dating....

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going on dates w/ppl=dating...not necesarily going out with the person as a boyfriend or girlfriend though.

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I've held hands with people I'm not in a relationship with. There are also tons of people who actually do kiss when they aren't dating... (I'm not just referring to the sluts of this world.) So that's not all true, maybe this girl was just a b***h. Sorry, OP.

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tell her that yah, you're just friends, because you like someone esle. Then wait a couple of days and she'll pour her heart out to you. happened with me too bro ;)

seems her mom was right...but the fact that she a) didn't even notice or b) simply didn't care until her mother told her to clarify things shows, that she isn't mature or empathetic enough to be in a relationship and that you deserve better

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"That you deserve better." We don't know the whole story here. Do you know the OP? Okay, then we don't know the kind of person he is. From the given info; the OP seems like a gullable person.

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for all we know they were just good friends and he just assumed too much.. I mean I've gone to movies and dinner with guy friends.. they've known it meant nothing more than friends.. she may have just not clarified it and assumed he knew..

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Why do girls seem to think that a guy who goes out to dinner and a movie with a girl isn't wanting to date her? It happens from time to time, but usually if we're wanting to hang out without a group of friends, we don't want to be "just friends".

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