Well, be active and show her ur skills.

Maybe if you tried more frequently than monthly, you'd get it right.

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Might want to rephrase that, 3. Since neither partner is obligated to "service" the other.

you know how many men have fallen asleep on me before I was satisfied? women need to be satisfied too 

How's that double-standard working out for you?

You do realize how often women face the same issue, right? It's not fair for either partner to be left out, and often women get the short end of that particular stick. So it's not as though OP is in a one-sided situation.

And as another commenter has stated, nobody has to service anybody else. Strong relationships often involve that, yes, but it's not a requirement, nor should it be treated like one.

In short, please take your narrow-minded bs

Men don't 'need' to be serviced; sex is a want, not a necessity, and nobody, married or not, is obligated to service you. It doesn't mean they don't care; just that they aren't interested. No reason why a man can't service himself.

Men don't 'need' to be serviced; sex is a want, not a necessity, and nobody, married or not, is obligated to service you. It doesn't mean they don't care; just that they aren't interested. No reason why a man can't service himself.

Time for a little self-care

If either of you only try to initiate sex when you've gone to bed for the night and are already tired, maybe a long weekend or holiday together would help with more opportunities to snuggle up. And if it doesn't help maybe it would be a good time to discuss your problems without her using tiredness as an excuse, maybe there's something stressing her out and she needs time to talk it through with you.

There's always Dr Ruth.

 

I'm not sure how it works, exactly, but I think you're supposed to close your eyes and think about Dr Ruth until you're horny...

This is the reason people cheat on each other sadly.

Tell her to spread 'em or you'll find someone that will!

 At least she didn't use a funny voice.

Well you should talk to her because that's unfair of her to do