By for_fs_sake - 21/09/2012 10:56 - United Kingdom

Today, my husband revealed that he found me drunk and shoe-less in a shrub in our front garden last night, sending dirty texts to my new employee. I've recently had my meds switched and apparently can't drink now. My husband's pissed, my shoes are gone, and I can't look the new guy in the face. FML
I agree, your life sucks 11 558
You deserved it 25 306

for_fs_sake tells us more.

I called the hospital this morning and was informed by the duty nurse that yes, I definitely should have been told not to drink on the new meds. When I asked why the doc didn't mention it, she replied that "the doctor has been very busy as she's now taken on a management position and she must have forgotten". Fabulous! Happily, my husband's very understanding, and the new guy thinks it's hilaaaaaaaaaaaarious. So right now, I guess it's the lack of shoes and lack of dignity that are the real problems. And yes - I've heard I was a BLAST to drink with last night, until the whole shrub-shoe-booty-text debacle. God, I'm a moron.

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perdix 29

You're British, so he's angry and you're "pissed." What are your new meds? I want to hand them out at the local bar, because you sound like tons of fun. Even with moderate success, I could get some free shoes.

Yikes. If you have an HR department (or anyone in an equivalent position), you might want to explain the situation to them before your new employee does. And if you haven't called your doctor yet to report what happened in case it wasn't just due to the drinking, you might do that, too.

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ETOH and meds. Sorry op that sucks! I know,I have been there! :-(

BeRealB 4

As with your name suggests I'm guessing you expected people to ask 'oh you're THAT girl?' But I won't ask that. I will however ask where you got those meds

Don't they have on the med bottle or package do not drink w Alcohol like in the U.S.?

They should as the UK has higher standards with medications (among other things) then both the US and Canada.

I'm on certain medications that do not allow me to drink because it could cause complications with the medication and the alcohol will affect me differently. Im not gonna pretend it doesn't suck, cause it does. I'm 22, all my friends drink, but I don't because I an responsible like that. You should have read the warnings and side effects that came with the medication. Either way YDI.

Hope that you can stick to your meds. I have to take epilepsy meds twice a day to control my seizures. I was told by my Dr that I shouldn't drink so I don't. You're young and I sympathize with you.

I called the hospital this morning and was informed by the duty nurse that yes, I definitely should have been told not to drink on the new meds. When I asked why the doc didn't mention it, she replied that "the doctor has been very busy as she's now taken on a management position and she must have forgotten". Fabulous! Happily, my husband's very understanding, and the new guy thinks it's hilaaaaaaaaaaaarious. So right now, I guess it's the lack of shoes and lack of dignity that are the real problems. And yes - I've heard I was a BLAST to drink with last night, until the whole shrub-shoe-booty-text debacle. God, I'm a moron.

It's not just the pharmacy's job toilet you know about your medication, it's yours too. And all medications come with information about the medications that tell you things like the side effects and if you need to change any type of behaviors such as diet or drinking.

thrAsHeRr9081 16

I agree. I work in a pharmacy, and I can't tell you how many people deny counseling from our pharmacist, then call back about having certain reactions. It is the patient's responsibility to read the paperwork that comes with the medication, or to at least look at the bottle. There are colored stickers of dos and don'ts on the bottles themselves. Herpa derp.

It still seems a little odd that you SPECIFICALLY texted your new employee. People do things while drunk that they will only THINK about doing sober... You SHOULD be ashamed and I'm glad your husband is understanding because if I were a guy and this were my wife I'd be questioning a few more than the alcohol and medication. But that's just me.

So will you be as understanding as your husband if you find him sleeping with another woman and his excuse is I was drunk? The meds only make you more intoxicated, they don't make you sext anyone. It's your thoughts that cause that. Your behavior is your responsibility; being altered isn't an excuse. You are responsible for your actions, regardless of your state of mind.

Mommyof2_91 10

I have actually gotten medication for my kid that didn't have any info with it.. It was pretty frustrating. But I did go online to look since i'm not about to give my kids something I don't know much about.

I agree with you completely. I don't understand how your comment or mine still got down votes. I mean, being drunk doesn't justify her sexting another guy. Just like it wouldn't justify her hubby sleeping with someone else. Oh well, our point of view isn't coming across as we thought. :/

SApprentice 34

22- OP, I'm so sorry for all the assholes that are saying you deserve it and that are putting you down. They've obviously never had to deal with any real mental illness. It's about more than just the alcohol- it's about the psychiatric medication, and your underlying condition. Don't let them get to you. I know how hard it can be. I'm a manic depressant, panic attack without agoraphobia, OCD, and was once diagnosed with PTSD that I've managed to recover from. The mania can hit in so many different ways. At my worst, I've screamed until my throat tore, curled up in balls rocking, gauged my limbs with my nails, laughed hysterically while sobbing, gone 115 hours without sleep and attempted suicide twice. I've gone through depression, mania, and through hyper-sexuality. Some medications make it better, some make it worse, and some work for a little while and then just stop working. Paxil almost left me dead. There are people out here who feel your pain. I know how hard it is when you have to listen to people telling you to just get over it, or that it's your fault. Sometimes no matter how hard you try you just can't fix your brain by yourself. Sometimes you just really need help, and I'm glad you have a supportive husband, one who it sounds like can hold you, and say, "Hey, I know, and I'm here, and I know you'll be okay." I'm sorry for the rant. I usually don't disclose that much, but I feel like you need to know that someone understands how hard the treatment for mental illness can be. Good luck with it, okay?

37 and 39 - she wasn't just drunk. The alcohol mixed with her medication and you have no idea how that affected her brain.

I'm glad things worked out for the positive in the end OP!

#53. I have borderline personality disorder and manic depressive disorder. I take lots of medications to help me with that, yet I don't go and mix alcohol with my medication because I want the medication work so I can have the best life I can with my mental illnesses. It's her responsibility to make sure she properly takes care of herself on the medication, and if she can't, then she should be in care. Anyone should be. I was before I learned to control myself.

Um, if your doctor "forgot" to tell you potentially dangerous drug interactions then that nurse shouldn't be shrugging that off... that is negligence and could get someone killed. Also, since I'm American, did you get the meds at the hospital or at a pharmacy, because the pharmacist should have told you as well.... if I was you, OP, I would be lodging some serious complaints since, as I said, this sort of negligence could get someone seriously ill or killed.....

Ah well, at least it sounds like it all worked out okay.

dangermouse2990 19

Thanks for the totally useless advice. It's like watching a pharma commercial.

Inciter 33

Maybe you should've checked your meds' side effects when you started taking them.

Actually, the alcohol intolerance seemed to be caused by the interaction of the new pill with the old pill I already take. Neither pill, on its own, had any sort of warnings against drinking in its literature. Yes, I’m still a stupid idiot. But I’m not so stupid that I don’t read the literature that comes with my pills.

olpally 32

As long as you learned from your mistakes op! Lol. Glad everything worked out and didn't really effect your job that much. Thanks for the lol! :D

Sooo, when you stop taking your old pill, you can drink again! You should invite the new guy out with you ;)

62- OP is married, why would she take the new guy out with her? Seriously.

Stop taking meds, they are the government trying to control your mind.

^^^^^ Well, somebody's a bit paranoid.

etoilenuit 15

I've had that happen to me before. Except I didn't realize it was the meds until it happened 3 times! Sorry! That sux!

Kinda common knowledge that you're not supposed to drink while on medication. Hell i was taking penacillin a couple of months ago for my throat and i couldnt even think about alcohol until the treatment was done. YDI, but i still feel you for that hell of a night. Hope you're doing better now

Wow, look at all the self righteous people on here acting like they've never made a mistake in their lives. I sympathize with you OP, that's happened to me too. Sometimes you've got so much going on you don't have time to sit and read through the paperwork that comes with new medication. Hope you find your shoes!