Nervous

By Z…… - 08/05/2025 04:00 - China

Today, I went to the hospital for constant dizziness and insomnia, and was diagnosed with anxiety. I figured out that the main source of my anxiety is not my job but my boyfriend, who has avoidant personality, which makes him constantly refuse almost everything that I request. He's a guy who just doesn't know how to show his love. FML
I agree, your life sucks 334
You deserved it 217

Same thing different taste

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I know you love him but just get out. Been there. They can't hear a word you say to them, you end up having to manage them like a pissy ******* toddler and the resentment will just poison everything about them to you. Breaking up now means you can do it gently and with love instead of with the frying pan and hatred later 🫂

poopface82 23

Sounds like he needs therapy. If he won’t do it or won’t do something to help, time to cut him loose.

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I know you love him but just get out. Been there. They can't hear a word you say to them, you end up having to manage them like a pissy ******* toddler and the resentment will just poison everything about them to you. Breaking up now means you can do it gently and with love instead of with the frying pan and hatred later 🫂

Right. Youth is fleeting; it's best to move on from romances that are not working. Also, is it possible he's just not that into having a girlfriend right now? Maybe he has no love to show.

poopface82 23

Sounds like he needs therapy. If he won’t do it or won’t do something to help, time to cut him loose.