Good thing you broke up with him because he doesn't deserve to be with someone who punishes him for no reason. FYL because you lost someone who actually cares about you. I don't think many guys would take the chance and send their gf a picture of a bra they lost.

I assume the types to take the chance are the ones who are so loyal that even the thought of infidelity never crosses their mind :( Poor guy. Hopefully he'll be better off in the future and end up with someone who trusts him as much as he deserves.

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That AND plus, if he was cheating why would he send her a picture of another womans bra? I mean in some cases I guess it can happen but for most people they're very secretive when they cheat.

thats exactly what i thought.. you'd think that if he was cheating at all, he wouldnt have sent her that pic seeing as he probably wouldnt know for sure and risk accidently outing himself. 0.o

You'd be surprised how dumb a lot of men are with cheating. I've had it fall into my lap a few times without me even having any suspicions or snooping lol.

And don't get me wrong, I'm thankful for men who aren't good at cheating lol. Definitely not complaining, just saying not everyone is good at being sneaky.

"Take the chance?" If the guys are faithful and only have one woman removing bras at their homes, there is no 'chance' to take since it can't possibly be anyone's but hers. Paranoid much?

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Wait what? Forgetful. Lady. Same sentence. Is that even possible?

Well i legit have short term memory loss (not as bad as Dory haha) and im a lady.
So they do exist. ?

she doesnt trust him. forgetful is a lame excuse

Maybe you should have thought a little harder about that one, OP. YDI.

YDI for not thinking, but FYL for forgetting.

Nothing like a well balanced comment.

Damn, that sucks. Maybe this is a leaning experience to grow from, having more patience and putting a little more trust into the people you care about. Had he given you any reason before to suspect he was cheating?

-slow clap- You deserve it! but at the same time I forget about clothes I have all the time. I wouldnt immediately break up though. Hopefully you can resolve things or move on!

YDI for not thinking things through too much. But maybe you should ask him to give you another chance.

I think he should be the one giving her a second chance!

Oh sorry, I misread your comment!

She doesn't deserve another chance

If he's reading and does he's an idiot. She didn't trust him so why try again? This is one id love to see comments on. Trust is a major issue in lots of relationships. She might feel bad but maybe deep down she knew he was shady ? Comment I'm bored and want to see whats said.

I can understand not remembering the bra, but if he were cheating, would he really have blatantly taken a picture of it with a chance of being someone else's? And send it to you??

ikr

Some guys are that dumb, to be fair. If he actually had been cheating, (yes, I know he wasn't, but I'm being hypothetical here,) he could have just forgotten which girl wore which bra and been dumb enough to guess at it. Unlikely, yes. But not as much so as you might think.

That was my first thought as well, what kind of dumbass would send that picture knowing it was a possibility that it wasn't hers?

should have thought about it first then jumping to him cheating...come on girl! a double whammy dis on FML and a break up

Well I'm sorry you lost your breast friend but YDI.

Pun intended?

You deserve the booby prize for that joke.