Good thing you broke up with him because he doesn't deserve to be with someone who punishes him for no reason. FYL because you lost someone who actually cares about you. I don't think many guys would take the chance and send their gf a picture of a bra they lost.

YDI for not thinking things through too much. But maybe you should ask him to give you another chance.

Sounds like you have a lot of ass kissing to do

I don't think a cheating boyfriend will ever send a pic of a personal item, they will throw it away and hide the evidence

How do you know every single bra you own? Do you own seven? I have a ton of bras & I can't tell any apart, not even the colored ones. Suffice to say, YDI for jumping to conclusions. Trust is the number one thing in a relationship along with communication & honesty. You should beg that sweet man to take you back. Just understand if he says no.

I would like to see his FML on this subject...

we need afowllowup up Was The Break-Up about the mysterious bra to me the fact that he sent you the picture is proof of his innocence any guy with multiple women in the picture would just just toss the bra

if your boyfriend were cheating on you, he probably wouldn't have risked sending you a picture and would've just thrown it away as it would've been easier. anyway I hope you find a way to work around your paranoia

Guess you shouldn't jump to conclusions. YDI

Time for you to abjectly apologise. Unless you were just looking for an excuse to break up with him, in which case you still owe him an apology, but for not womaning up and breaking up without an excuse.

Did you smash all of his stuff? Did he show up with his lawyer with proof of non-cheating?

Yes, because he was dumb enough to cheat on you and then show you the proof. Way to not think logically. He's going to be much better off now that you've shot yourself in the foot.