By father-in-nope - 21/07/2015 15:17 - United States - San Francisco
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I'm sorry you have to deal with this OP. But at least you are making the right decision.
Wow. Even if there is a slight chance he was kidding, it is still an incredibly fucked up thing to say. Just as long as you and your boyfriend want this baby together, keep doing what you're doing.
Perhaps adoption would be better if he doesn't want to be a grandfather just yet... But it's up to you and your boyfriend...
Like you said, it's up to OP and her boyfriend. It's their business and absolutely nobody else's. OP shouldn't feel like she has to give away her child just because her boyfriend's dad is an asshole. If he doesn't want to be a grandfather he'll just have to suck it up and deal with it.