By father-in-nope - United States - San Francisco
Today, my boyfriend's dad helped me put coolant in my car. When I said I wished I could do something in return, he told me to get an abortion so I wouldn't "ruin" his son's life. When I told my boyfriend, he didn't believe me. FML
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  nhaba1214  |  19

The dad. I could see that the bf wouldn't want to believe that his dad could say something like that but he should still talk to him about it since it's not like she'd just lie about something like that. Hopefully.

By  cheeeksss  |  29

Wow. Even if there is a slight chance he was kidding, it is still an incredibly fucked up thing to say. Just as long as you and your boyfriend want this baby together, keep doing what you're doing.


Like you said, it's up to OP and her boyfriend. It's their business and absolutely nobody else's. OP shouldn't feel like she has to give away her child just because her boyfriend's dad is an asshole. If he doesn't want to be a grandfather he'll just have to suck it up and deal with it.

  SPN_lover666  |  27

Why would OP give up the baby for adoption just because the grandfather isn't ready to become a grandfather? That is a pretty stupid reason to give it up for adoption