By 27musiclover - 16/08/2009 14:41 - United States
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Your friend was just keeping it real. Good friends tell the truth, no matter how much it hurts. I appreciate that kind of honesty in a friend.
The question is, though... was she being honest because she thought the OP should know, or was she being honest because she actually ISN'T the OP's friend, and was just yanking her along this whole time? OP, sucks, maybe you should ask her what's so damn bad about yourself? If nothing else, you have a charitable nature...
Good friends use tact and compassion. Outright stating that the OP is the friend no one likes is just plain mean and doesn't help at all. WHY is she that friend? Is there something she could be doing differently? Saying, "We need to talk about (insert issue)" is a lot more helpful and kinder than saying, "By the way, no one likes you."
well maybe she likes you but your other friends are fake, and she decided to be honest. That happened with this guy a know, hes the friend everyone kind of makes fun of, when his real friend told him he didn't believe him, and now they don't speak.