By obese_chicken - 06/11/2009 06:59 - Australia
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i'm sorry, that really sucks. you could do without friends like that..
And that's why you're a scummy bastard, Cheeseballs. Of course your friend wouldn't just say 'No, stay with me', because then they sound like the cunt. Friends without loyalty aren't true friends. Start learning how to be loyal. And bad luck OP, 'friends' my arse, find some that aren't so worthless.
wow thats low on so many levels. it could also be from the bouncers perspective... she may not be like really overweight just not a size 0. Plus people like you are reasons why i get annoyed with what people think. yes people have a right to their opinion but grow up. I could say the exact same thing to you and say your fat because thats how I see you... grow up and get some class.... and OP im sorry your friends are jerks they should have gone somewhere else with you instead of ditching you. Have a talk with them.
if your in the dress code and don't look presentable there's no reason they shouldn't let you in. What a fucktard that bouncer was. And those so called friends.. we once waited outside a club for 4 hours or something with my friend on his b'day. We finally went somewhere else in the end, but we never abandoned him.
cheeseballs, are you by any chance a skinny little bitch? if so then you have no idea hoe being fat can be a problem for us plus size people. and losing weight when you have large all your life can be pretty hard and straining. so learn some manners and grow the fuck up!
lol if you have been large all your life you should have followed his advice a long time ago. 5% of fat ppl have thyroid problems and I feel horrible for them. the other 95% need to accept that ppl call them fat and don't want to see them or fuckin DO something about it!
I'm so sorry. Unless you're drastically overweight, that's terrible, and totally not your fault.
There are actually certain conditions that make people gain weight, you know. :/ Also, if they're brought up eating a certain way, isn't it likely that they'll CONTINUE eating that way? I'm not saying overweight people are completely devoid of blame, that's unrealistic, just that not every chubby person is that way because they sit on their ass eating cake all day. And, OP, that's terrible. :c I would have stayed with you! You really need some better friends if these ones--and I use the term friends very loosely when referring to these individuals--are going to behave like this.
if your sick of these arguments.... ignore them ... not that hard... the OP could be obese for any reason but no need to call people out on it... its kinda hard for girls to lose weight compared to guys .. plus periods put on weight and if you have kids... so there are ten times more weight causes so maybe you should shut up unless you know the person and get over yourself... theres going to be arguments about everything so act your age and grow up and be the better person and just read and move on to the next fml or dont read comments.... problem solved.
yes it goes with your claim because you said those things like medical conditions are a minority... there are other factors to weigh in too so i dont see why its so bad to have sympathy for someone whos overweight because it could be for any reason what so ever. they may be overweight but no need to make fun of them for it, and if your sick of the arguments then dont read the comments
the point is no matter the reason why the person is obese then why bother bringing it up ... the point is the op didnt get in then her friends ditched her.... point is to everyone... someones overweight ... o0o their fat and deserve it cuz theyre fat... you were saying something about no sympathy for ppl ... doesnt matter... people can be nice if they want and sympathize
Thank you! Don't forget about the people who are in denial "Oh maybe the OP isn't really fat... maybe the bad person just expects her to be a size 0" This is such a stupid argument, "I'm not fat, everyone else just has unrealistic expectations" .... ok then, keep telling yourself that These people need to wake up... if someone calls you fat... he/she is an ass... but you are still fat..... stop pretending that you are "normal" for your height and weight.... here's an objective way.... if you are over your Body Mass Index... then you are fat (weight lifters somewhat excluded).
CPTobvious, you said "If someone calls you fat, you are fat." For your information, that is not true. My sister's ex-girlfriend told her she was fat every day, when in reality she was a size 3. Her ex was a size 0. My sister became insecure, anorexic and nearly died. Yes, it is true that OP might be chubby for reasons she can control, BUT you dont know and you cant just say things like "if someone calls you fat youre fat." And anyway, the bouncer should not have been an asshole about it, should have let her in, and her friends especially should NOT have left her. :(
omg i dont even know ur friends but i hate them!! dont have friends like them man
Sometimes I wish people would get a bit more specific in FMLs. How are we to know that this chick is even "fat" at all? Perhaps the bouncer was an asshole; perhaps the club has a strict weight policy that the OP didn't fit; or perhaps the OP really is "fat". Either way, we'll never know the whole truth, and thus really have no right to judge. However, I'm just going to assume the bouncer was a dick, and that her friends are cunt-liking asshole-sniffing jerkoffs.
I'll bet your friends aren't all that skinny. They just hang out with you because you make them look anorexic by comparison. $100? That's a bad loss. You could have celebrated your birthday in style with that money by buying a professional plumpa humpa.